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 If I was worried I wouldn't do it, but signing sex paperwork saying you can rape her? I really think that's idiotic and surely can't help legally. Keep a text or don't do it if your actually thinking like this. But it's pretty normal from my experiences that people are into this stuff, especially since 50 shades. Db     
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08-01-2013, 03:01 PM
If you dont feel comfortable trying it dont do it. If your taking control of someone and you dont feel at ease with what your doing it's only going to make your sub hesitant and she wont feel she can truly let herself go.
Before you do anything you need to set out what she actually feels comfortable doing and what her limits are. It's well and good her saying she has rape fantasies but that doesnt mean your the one to do it out the blue. You need to get your self in a dominant frame of mind first off, starting thinking of times in the past where you've been rough sexually and she's enjoyed. Once in the right frame of mind you need to take control i know it sounds obvious but as soon as you start to doubt your self or to worry if she'll enjoy it then the funs over. Remember its not just what you're getting her to do it's how your coming across when doing it. Dont just ask her to suck your dick, push her to the floor and say it firmly in her ear. You need to convey authority and dommance with everything you do. If your looking for examples I reccomned sex and submission.com look for stuff with Mark Anthony I coppied alot of his stuff when I first got into this shit.
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09-01-2013, 11:01 PM
Well thanks to those who gave genuinely good advice.
I tried to gauge her boundaries and what she wanted, both quite hard for her to work out and verbalise, I don't think she really knew herself. So, I experimented and it seemed to turn her on a lot more, plus I found it pretty good fun. Interestingly the 'standard' sex we had separately from this, she became more in tune with. Perhaps this was as a result of me tapping into her fantasies, or maybe just the fact we were both finding our feet after several sessions.
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