Is this not about how you view her comments. Do you take it as insult, or meaningless words that you laugh off. I'm sure we've heard Phil mention this in the past.

If she is playing games and then throws herself at some other guy instead of you, I'd be tempted to ask just why that is.

to try and put it to a way you can understand mate.

imagine one of ur mates said this, & meant it.

"wer goin out tonight, my birds comin, dont be trying to sleep with her" id flip out,

not that this would ever be a convo with a mate, but its hypothetical.
it should be expected that you have no agenda until you promote a reason to

this applies to anything, not just girls

Good mind-set Phil, I like it.

I also find same night lays to be common place, as K said its like a mating ritual.

Actually just worked it out and just over half the people I've slept with the first time was same night, a little over a quarter are people I knew but never dated just friends and had sex, and so I actually only ever dated less than 25% of the girls I've been with and almost all of them where in the chode days!

Conclusion
I think I need to work on my dating game. Infact I just need to actually date, such a slut.

im not sure if we are talkin about dates.

or just meeting girls on a night out.

I gotta write something here apparantly

These two bits confuse me about the point you are trying to make.

i was kissing her earlier on. I felt he pussy, she had pubes, so i thought

"fuck that"

and just sat down. ( so i stopped the interaction)

about half an hour later she said "i hope u know wer not having sex"

ur mixing up dating

and meeting a girl on a night out

I think you contradicted yourself no?