lol, i think its good that u have the balls to go up and talk to girls.

i think if you did what your doing, but in the right kind of places. (minus hugs, kisses & high fives)

with normal kino. you would get a better response

Erm, I'm not sure how we got onto the subject of issues with my approaching skills, but I should respond.

I never do high fives, you will notice this if you read my field reports. My game is very laid back and chilled to be frank.


This is essentially what I already do, again this is noted in my day game thread. I am always direct. There is no confusion about my intentions.


I did this spontaneously actually based on the situation I was in. I've hugged 2 girls out of the 100 or so I've approached, so this really is not an issue.


The surprise element also can work in your favour Phil. But to be honest, because I'm not trying to take value from them (or their money) I they have no reason to have remorse. I go up to them offering value.


I have been on dates and had a relationship as a result of day game. My analysis: It works.


I've found the type of girls I like are not to be seen in sweaty clubs. They are on the streets, in the shops, in art galleries. They don't like to get slaughtered every friday night. They enjoy good food and conversation. This is probably the main reason I do day game. One of the others is that it is a buzz!

Fair enuf on most points. apart from this one


Buyers remorse isn't just financial.

it happens with all sorts. people love to talk themselves out of things. Oh should do that but X Y Z.

don't think for a min that girl doesn't massively Analise the meet for her own safety, you could be a rapist.

and further more.... if cold approach always works, and you dont think there is a problem, you wouldn't have opened a thread, i'm just trying to open up the issue. put ur gun away.

I am conscious to look as friendly as possible with this type of thing in mind. I smile from the start and try and make them as comfortable as I can. I will get blown out for a whole variety of reasons anyway, so worrying about what head space they're in is pointless. If they want to chat they will, if not, so be it.

Guns are away, this is all healthy discussion mate. I appreciate all feedback, so the thread is just me mulling over my own thoughts on the matter and problems, or perhaps perceived problems. This is part of my learning, and I know I am progressing, despite me moaning

So after all the fuss I made, I have a follow up date from the serial dating from the Bank Holiday. I just got off the phone from the Japanese bird and after a cool conversation about street art she suggested we go and check some out this wkd in Manchester. Ace. I decided to go into the call laid back and not really think too much about asking for a date, and just let the conversation happen. It started to feel rather flirty and sexual by the end.

Somehow I got the impression this was a dead duck after her not answering the last couple of times I called. I need to stop worrying about dumb shit and keep ploughing.

Haha, trust me I have the motivation, after all this is why I've been going out 3/4 days a working on this.