I've only really had sex when drunk/smashed.

this blonde chick phoned me at 3AM for a booty call, i declined. I feel like it was because I was sober.

This is a sticking point. Advice? Opinions?

Is this for real? Surely thou are taking the piss.

Unstick yourself.

Wish I could offer some advice but honestly I can't.

My first time I was stone cold sober and I've had more sex when sober than drunk.

Opinion? Shit is fucked up man. Can't get my head around this.

You have got to have sober sex sometime. You can't rely on alcohol forever. Dunno...

Sure someone far more wise will come along with some proper advice

Sober is way better.

There is literally nothing better than setting aside a whole afternoon to fuck a hot woman.

After the couple of times you cum you get more and more into it. You leave behind your inhibitions and all you left with us pure craving for the female form.

When you have the time to take things slowly you can be at your most creative. Its not about getting to the end goal of an orgasm it just sex for sex sake.

It's what were all looking for at the end of the day so why not take your time and enjoy it not half pissed out of your head.

i totally agree... I dunno i think it stems from issues as a fat kid, RELIGION and a gf who was a virgin/tease... but I'm not arguing here TBH... ur both right.

Sober for the win.

You should grow up and learn to drink and pull without being smashed!

So.... sober OR "a few drinks" for the win

if u are smashed, how r u meant to remember it?

Yeah drunk sex equals no inhibitions etc which is great.

Drug fuelled sex is great too.

Sober sex is also great.

All sex with a babe is fucking great.




Having sex on drugs is the only thing I miss about not being drug a user anymore although I do use the odd viagra or herbal aphrodisiac.

Why did you actually decline?

I'm assuming its not because you don't like women anymore, or that you have turned gay, so it must be that you were afraid of not being "cool" or being able to hold conversation without your dutch courage.

I've been in your shoes before in that I hadn't had sex without drink or drugs involved, for about 5 years before I did it sober. It's just the way it went - I was usually always on drugs so the realisation was no surprise to me.

You say you think it was due to the fact you were sober, then it must have been that.

I bet if you had been drunk you would have went to hers, yes?

I've had 3am booty calls too where I'm totally sober & I've been woken up out of my sleep with a call or text saying "im horny, come to my house please", most of the time I'd go, other times I would try not to go as I was nice & comfy & half sleeping but then thinking of the sex I'd get a hard on which forced me to get up & go round to hers empty my load on her face then go home & go back to sleep, on a rare occasion I wouldn't go, about 1 out of every 10 times. These booty calls lived close by though, & one even lived below me, so it wasn't like I had to go hail a cab across town.

How far away is this blonde booty call from your place?

I dont have inhibitions anyway. i very rarely have sex drunk coz i always fall asleep. And i dont like gettin drunk.

most people fall into this drunk sex thing coz they are scared to take the sex when they are sober. it becomes a habit. Break The Habit