it's good to be on top

I dont do drunken sex either, usually because my current non drunk state is not giving much of a shit- so - drunk i just care too little to even fuck
besides i dont like getting drunk, because i just feel crap, have no interested in sex.

I also wont fuck a drunk girl if im not 'drunk' because i feel it belittleing me if they dont give themselves to me sober.

if as the OP states he only has sex smashed and will refuse sex through fear when not smashed-- you have a serious issue, prolly confidence based that you need to start knocking on the head.

for all those that posted saying booze is good for letting your inhibitions down, you should be happy to be who you are and go for what you want without any booze in you.
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It's moreo habit hopefully than an underlying issue I hope. I just associate sex with alcohol since halls at uni. My sexual experience is based on a hazy memory of fucks and blowjobs.. So when im sober I think I have too much apprehension about what I'm doing because I honestly feel very inexperienced despite not being all that much.

I have this hot 26yo milf now who wants to fuck and tie me up.. So I really Wanna bang through this but that seems even more sexually intimidating

the only thing i horn for when im hungover is Mcdonalds quarter pounder with cheese meal, milkshake and apple pie

Jesus, you can't beat a hangover wank.

...except when sex with someone who isn't, is available.

I do think this is pretty weird. Have you never fucked the girl the next morning once you've sobered up anyway just as a normal course of the interaction?

You could try weaning yourself off the booze. After a while you won't notice you're sober, but you will enhance the following:

Sex.

Never has a generic statement been so far from the point.

Sex is overrated. Massively.

Brilliant sex isn't however.

Sure, and I prefer this bit way more than drunk sex.

what about when u been horny as fuck on the garys for hours, when u can finaly get a root on, an u get in the bath, & the hot water brings u back up again

Then try knockin one out & tell me u cant beat a hangover wank

feels like ur being cuddled by a thousand fairies

Next morning shower sex is awesome. Esp when at her place and then you go straight round the next birds for another shower