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17-08-2012, 02:35 PM
sorry for 2 topics in 2 days but i dunno how to respond to this at all... or moreso what it means.
im chatting to this bird a bit on this site. fuck it i'll post her whole last message for context. if this was IRL with a girl in a bar/university,and they ask if im seeing someone its 75% of the time a) they are interested in me and want to see whats going on or 25% of the time b) they are a little interested in my life and want to tell me who they're seeing just to chat shit for a bit... im not a fan of exchanging essays back and forth and to be quite honest.. im not very good at it but im intrigued to know what the last bit "and... are you have any luck on here?" means and whats best to answer it. if this was a less sensitive girl i'd be like "LOL YEAH ABOUT 10 DATES ALL GOIN WELL U WANNA BE NUMBER 11?" or i'd straight up be like "yeah a lot of interest but dont worry, you're in the top 3 lol.." i know shes picky or selective cos 2 of my mates setup accounts for a laugh.. tried to get on her and she blanked them pretty much.     
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17-08-2012, 03:28 PM
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If your not a fan of exchanging long essays then maybe you could inform her of this??? If she likes you she will agree with you... Girls will always change their opinions to suit yours if you are valueble enough for them. As for answering her question she wrote at theend..... Dont answer it!!! just pretend like you never even saw it! AJay miliation, rejection, or worse, are the ones who become champions."
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17-08-2012, 04:21 PM
When girls ask me that online I just go 'yeah, I've met a few people from here. Some were weird, some were pretty cool.' Just honest and not making a big deal out of it.
You're overthinking this though dude. If she's bothering to write these massive messages she already likes you. There's no need to worry too much about it, just send a couple more chatty messages then set up a meet. Simple. But I'm tryin' to give you a million dollars worth of game for $9.99
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17-08-2012, 05:52 PM
Fuck me that's a long message. I'd ignore questions about how much luck you have on the site. I had a girl ask me that last week in a text. Who do they think they are haha!
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17-08-2012, 05:56 PM
i decided to just say the truth. some are weird, some are cool. dont worry you're in the top 5.
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18-08-2012, 01:10 AM
ill leave it at this lads... u guys are right.
IGNORE THAT FUCKING QUESTION. potential hot blonde bird with stunning yet original good looks down the shitter lol. oh well. its just the internet. :'(
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As for more general tactics: try to go for a direct phone/email/skype/msn contacts exchange after 3 or so medium sized messages (say 100 -150 words). Try to pace your responses to one every 24/48 hours. On your third response just end it with "anyway I think we should talk directly, you can get me on #999999 / <email/msn/skype/--whatever-->" always give your number as a minimum and whatever else takes your fancy. Don't directly ask for theirs or hint in any way that you expect them reciprocate. Personally I avoid facebook etc as it just gives too much away. Really the volunteering your number first tactic is just pure gold and in my experience gets at least an 80% followup rate of them reciprocating or contacting you via one of said means.
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