lol shit u guys are pros at this online shit. it seems like an art...

okay then for example OK cupid...



I'm trying to complete this % thing and you look pretty cute so hi... your tats look awesome


replied with..
Hello i'm [xxxx]

Oh I ignore the % thing they say everyone is my enemy lol.

And thank wow for the compliments hun, you look pretty hot yourself

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how do u guys proceed from there? i was literally just messaging 5 people btw to get my % up then i realised its fucking impossible to get to 100% quickly... then i also realised why do i want to.

I don't believe % is a function of how often you msg people: that only affects the "replies often" or "replies selectively" status.

The match % is a function of the tests that users complete.

More about just how advanced the platform is can be found here:
("calculate a match percentage between the searcher and each candidate, which involves thousands of arithmetic operations on the intersections of their questions")


As for opening a bird by referring to her "tats" --- well if she replies to that, she's probably up for anything so say whatever you want. Try and move beyond boring shit like how r u? / what u doing?, could say something slightly controversial and colourful instead, phrased as a question, and wait for a response... "Why is it that.. ____?" or "Do you agree that ______?"... if this can be linked into a strereotype of people with one of her main interests it might help - whatever!

i replied with what i thought was some cool shit (3 hours later) and no reply.

oh well.


u guys have got great experiences so far with girls who actually seem colorful, interesting.. i'm not enjoying the girls i do talk to (well apart from 1).. is that normal for a 4 day stint in online dating?

You either get on or you don't I suppose, but then so much depends on the messages too. I'm starting to experiment a little more with this online stuff too.