Ok here's the thing about the above right. I do care. As man I care about issues that effect men collectively. As a collective. Brace yourselves here comes :
A MEGA RANT/essay/mini manifesto call it what you like...
But I realise that this doesn't come naturally to most men. I realise that if you seek to highlight or explore weakness in other men, then people will often attack you, either on the grounds that you perhaps share those weaknesses or (as you have) on the grounds that weak men are inherently undeserving of sympathy compassion or support...and that furthermore it's best we ignore them totally for fear that their weaknesses or short comings somehow prove somehow catching?
It's not as simple as weak men blaming something outside their control for their own incompetence, to paraphrase a wise man ;You're so black and white on a topic that has more shades of grey than a Dulux concrete catalogue.
EDUCATION AND ECONOMICS
Because we live in a culture that demonises masculinity and masculine values. Seeks to feminize boys from birth. Has adapted the curriculum in order to address a percieved imbalance that disadvantages girls. As a result of all this we are a generation of men that have faced an uphill struggle in rediscovering our masculine identity...We have all manner of social and economic issues that stem from these cultural upheavals...We have a bunch of emasculated nancy boys with degrees in soft girly subjects like 'Marketing literature and media whom we can't employ in a failing economy that simply doesn't have enough 'soft' jobs for everyone. We have to bus in a bunch of 'real men' from eastern europe who (have immirgated into our country en masse under European labor laws) to do all the ' real' men's work (plumbing/building/hard labour) that our educational reforms have rendered our own men incapable or imcompetent of doing efficently or competatively. (And that's not even mentioning the mass outsourcing of labor to places like India /China/ Brazil which is another can of worms.)
FATHERLESSNESS
We have a bunch of young women conditioned to believe that men offer them nothing they can't do for themselves, and these same women are banging out babies and choosing to bring them up alone. Babies that are now 15, 16, 18 year old MEN, that these women can't control, it was these same fatherless babies raised by the 'girl power' generation who were literally running riot across our cities a year ago safe in the knowledge that there wasn't a big man with a belt waiting for them when they got home.
RELATIONSHIPS AND DATING
In relationships and dating we face one toxic impossible woman after another and most men don't have the courage or self awareness or social savvy to recognise these women for what they are and to kick such selfish exploitative bints to the curb and demand better for themselves and so end up enslaved in marriages to these toxic cunts. Toxic cunts who are all too free and all too willing to initiate divorces on grounds of anything they like ( bordom?) and go ahead and claim any assets and children they like in the fallout. Then spend the poor sods hard earned money on botox and new tits so they can park the children they stole with a child minder and go selfishly chasing boys (her son's age) because you know the selfish cunt thinks she's a 'strong' indepdent' 'cougar' now...?
PUA
As for
Pua...as a 'movement' for my 2cents It's what happens when middle class nancy boys raised by liberal/feminist mothers infected by the girl power nonsense of feminisim, then in turn feminise their boys into dysfunctional and sexually confused young men. And while a tiny handful of the '
pua material' explores the deeper issues underlying men's struggles to adapt to a changing social landscape in the last 30 years, the majority of it simply strives to expand and increase and exploit the issues of the fucked up dorks drawn to it's 'hollow promises' of golden bullets and quick fixes in a cynical attempt to extort money from them.
IN CONCLUSION
So you are right. It's not just about pussy. I get plenty of pussy and I know most men today don't. And if it was as simple as that I could go get laid and allow the issues that affect sad lonely single/trapped confused men/boys to be the last thing on my mind as i get my nuts in over and over.
But we are all in this (Society/culture/nation) together. The wider issues behind all this shit effect us ALL in profound ways. Men, women and most importantly CHILDREN.
It's time men collectively maned up. Gaming a fucked up system to get your end away and simply thinking 'more for me', might seem like fun for a while, but once you move past that this shit starts to really come into focus...
12-06-2012, 12:42 PM
