Friday 11th January

Went out to meet Uber at Printworks, caught up and had a chat, wasn't approaching or anything until we got to Blu in Northern Quarter, again I wasn't approaching which is awful of me but Uber got speaking to a 2set and i got in quite smoothly and the 4 of us got chatting.

They were confusing, they seemed like they were up for it (even though we weren't really bothered) but in the end we left it. Saw Steve and 2 people off the old members off the forum and got chatting (new people to go out with). Uber said i should go back in set to the 2 girls and get a make out, so i tried but she was again being really weird so i left it.

Uber went home and i was about to leave too but 2 girls thought i was a bouncers - as all bouncers wear H&M hoodies - and got speaking to them and ended up hanging out with them for an hour, number closing and making out with one. . . been a long time shall we say. I set up a date too but towards the end i realised they were 17 and when i was on the bus home we drove passed her making out with another guy!!! Hahahahahhaha

Sounds convenient that it happened when i was by myself but I think when you're alone it forces you to speak to new people and also leaves you open for others to speak to you.

Anyway to round up, i just need to approach more (always been my problem), last year (sept-dec) I really had no motivation about this stuff but its back in me now. I was surprised how i was in the 2 interactions of the night, with the success i had i was actually good.

The funny thing is because they thought i was a bouncer i was id'ing the LOL obviously didnt check too good!

Was sober too

Went to Saturday Sarge today, met up with a few people from around Manchester. Keep this short. It was really good, got a good wing who pushed me a lot and i did 6 proper approaches.

Hadn't slept in 24hours due to going out at night too and man was i nervous, they didn't go anywhere especially with how ridiculously nervous i was too!

Its good though so much easier with setting goals with a wing and pushing each other, need to implement this in night game at the club; I really don't approach in the club!! Even though i know i can.

Good outing.

One was clearly into Uber but apart from that I think they were just really drunk and/or one of those crazy club girls you always see out. I don't know though so i wouldn't wanna judge

Thanks for the post though!

Edit: re-read my FR and realised i didn't clarify it too well k-dog as im always writing them at the end of the night and trying to be brief. They were just time wasters I think or those types of girls that don't do anything until you get back to yours/their place but, as Uber said, its a bit boring; the whole interaction is meant to be fun.

Barney

Saturday sarge today, was really good. Super nervous as usual. Approaching stunners (why I like day game, at night its always above-average at best) and i accomplished my goal of approaching and not ejecting.

I was so nervous that i was stuttering my words and they didn't go anywhere but at least I wasn't the one ejecting. Good day, my goal was to do one proper approach with bailing but i ended up doing like 12 or so, my wing Graham pushes me pretty hard and i do the same, its a good team.

Keeping this brief but yeah, super nervous and my words were all over the place. Next time its to just do 1 approach where its smoother and Im not such a nervous wreck about it.

Nice work man. You will become more comfortable/smoother with time and experience.

Haha lets hope mate, we'll have to wing sometime too, I'm free sunday, monday, thursday and friday if you wanna do some more :P

the more you fuck up, the better you will get. Without a doubt you are going to be a massive pimp

What do you mean?

I getcha, yeah its not engulfed my life or anything but I've got a lot of focus on it right now for sure especially being at University and young where I've got the time like most students go out a lot anyway.

Met up with Jynx and Kowalski at the K R O, was fucking awesome! Great guys and had a great chat; Kowalski was 100% not what I expected, both down to earth hilarious guys.

Made plans to go out tomorrow night at Rehab too, think this'll be a little milestone in my journey and self-development for sure

Kowalski, this is what you reminded me of :P