I'm not as successful with women as I would like to be yet, but I improved a lot once I got more comfortable with being sexual around women. I used to get stuck just having a good time with a girl, and never knew how to move things forwards (I thought it would be rude to get sexual). I read Juggler's stuff about sexual barriers and it helped me a lot. In my experience, some women seem to get turned on by being desired.

trooooooooooooooo disssssssss

if people follow this lead!

ur on a date, eventually ur gonna end up fuckin her... so stop pressin it

GLG - can't you work on intent and stuff I mentioned? Why is it 1 or the other?

Reflex - I get what your saying but remember you probably give off sexual vibes subconsciously. Some guys don't and need to work on it consciously to make it become natural.

this is bollocks!!!

Why?

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coz women dont wanna fuck men coz they are giving of sexual signal... all men ever do is give off sexual signals... coz they are afraid to say it how it is.

in my book, i dont even try fucking a woman, but i make it clear that its gonna happen.

all this unconscious sexual energy is crap! womne are not used to guys not having one thing on their mind

and are intrigued as to why this specific one isnt on her like a rash.

quote from a girl

"most lads are usually all over me by now, why are u standin there like ur all tha what makes u think ur so special"

Me.

"right ok then, lets go" Her : "wer are we goin"

takes her hand

Me: " u know wer we are goin"

fucked her. The end

u dunno why ur trying to convince urself there is somethin invisible we have that you need to add.

sometimes you get more by taking somethin away.

for the next month, go out, date girls... but ur intent is to not sellp with any of them... not blow jobs no nothin.

make it clear aswell. look im not just sleepin with anythin that comes my way... ill do it when im ready

Phil your love stories are amazing!
Sound advice though

I sure can matey. I'm on it.

Wasn't trying to say that I will never pay attention to personal grooming, rather my point was that it is not mandatory to pull Same Night Lays.

Note, I'm not talking about having sex with the girl on day-2s or after a date here. The discussion on this topic seems to have gone off in directions other than the one I intended lol Part of forum life I guess.

I look after myself because it makes me feel good about myself. The point is to do it for onself and not for attracting the opposite sex alone. If that happens as a by-product, it's nice. But I'm not in favour of using personal grooming as a "tool" to attract women.

As an example, I know of a friend who believes quite deeply in "looking good" for the women. Spends a good two hours getting ready before a night out. What does that get him? Unfortunately not much as his cold approach game is pathetic. Worse, when he is not well dressed, his confidence level is nill. He is THAT invested in looks that without his contacts or his hair set just right or his expensive cologne, his world crumbles. Now I know this is probably an exceptional case, and most people are somewhere between this extreme and not caring at all. A happy medium is acceptable.

Anyways, I am at fault of digressing from my own topic again.

Just to gently reiterate, Same Night Lays (in cold approaches) and the use of Intent in achieving them

My intent is to touch everyones bum in this topic