Here's some cool shit I found on
Vince Kelvin's Website.
Cold reading + Some NLP (Embedded commands)
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When starting to introduce cold reading in your Pickups, after a bit a practice, you'll soon notice that when accurate, it is probably what
causes the strongest responses, and will most rapidly generate intrigue and attraction...
But how do you get to accurately cold read a woman? What do you cold read? And how do you include mini-patterns into your cold read???
Here is the Secret System I created and have been using!
1. WHAT READ IS THE RESPONSES SHE/THEY HAVE TO WHAT YOU FIRST SAID OR DID. FOR THAT, OBSERVE AS YOU TALK AND INTERACT!
2. IT HELPS TO CATEGORIZE WHAT YOU NOTICE SO YOU CAN MORE EASILY IDENTIFY AND ANALYZE IT!
The categories I personally came up with and go by...
a. IMMEDIATE RESPONSE:
- Anything you suggest or say and she responds right away, sometimes even before you completed the sentence. For example, you comment on a bracelet, and she extends her hand
to show you. You extend your hand to shake hers, she goes for it right away.
b. CONTRADICTORY RESPONSE:
- She goes for the opposite of what you suggest. She doesn't participate, you lean in for a hug, she leans away, you say something, she disagrees.
d. COMPLIANT RESPONSE:
- She simply follows along, without either holding back or being overly eager to respond.
c. HESITANT RESPONSE:
- She is a bit hesitant, her body language is uncertain, she isn't comfortable.
3. CREATE A MINI-PATTERN THAT SERVES SEDUCTION FOR EACH OF THE ABOVE CATEGORIES!
Starting your cold reading with:
"IT'S INTERESTING THE WAY YOU DO X (answer, talk, move, shake hand, etc.) BECAUSE IT REVEALS SOMETHING ABOUT YOU, YOU'RE PROBABLY NOT EVEN AWARE OF..."
If her response to you saying that is...
IMMEDIATE (for example "tell me, tell me...)
- I sense you're a person that when there is something that YOU WANT...ME, I can tell, YOU'RE GOING TO GO FOR THIS (SP) WITH ALL YOU HAVE...
CONTRADICTORY (for example "that's not true...")
- I sense you're a person who sometimes will say or do the opposite of what you're being told...
THIS SENTENCE IS GOLD AND IT IS YOUR SUCCESS "WARRANTY", BECAUSE, NOT ONLY YOU CAN RELY ON IT ANYTIME A WOMAN DISAGREES WITH YOUR COLD READING, IT'S ALSO A WIN NO MATTER WHAT...
She agrees, you're right, she disagrees that she disagrees, you playfully say "see, that's too adorable, there you just did it..." (laugh with her, not at her).
COMPLIANT (For example "Yea that's so true...")
- I sense you're a person you kind of just flow with life, and you SIMPLY LET IT TAKE YOU WHERE YOU WANT IT TO GO (discreet point between your legs)...WITH ME...I find that to be an interesting quality...
HESITANT (For example "I am not sure about that...")
- I sense you're a person, at times in new situations you may not RIGHT AWAY BE MORE COMFORTABLE...WITH ME, I can also sense that...when YOU CAN TELL THIS IS OK, you can start to BE MORE AND MORE COMFORTABLE AND OPEN...TO ME, it seems to be what happens when...
EXERCISE:
1. Start to notice those four main generalized types of responses.
2. Familiarize yourself with the mini-patterns.
3. Identify the four categories AS YOU TALK in the field.
4. Be willing to stumble a bit at first and start to Cold read those women you meet.
Advanced recommendation:
I personally have created so many different systems of organizing possible categories of responses (in a non-filtered or non- judgmental manner, to not clutter your perception), so if you feel advanced enough to do that, create and name your own categories, and a brief pattern for each. ACCURACY, SIMPLICITY, AND OPTION TO RECOVER FROM OPPOSITE RESPONSES ARE THE KEY!!!
And for more on Cold reading, allow me to recommend my absolute MUST HAVE "Cold Reading" CDs, check them out!
Vince