bounce bitch!!

Bit late to this, better late than never I guess.....

In the bar was chatting to a big-haired girl for some time, I kept saying she looked like Diana Ross. Her friends were being chatted up by the crisp white shirt guys - great for me! Tried to isolate to a seat, couldn't find any. All stations were go, ramped up the kino, holding her hand, looking her straight in the eye, then:

'I'm not very affectionate in public'

My response: 'Who said you were going to get anything?'

Vibe wasn't the same after that and the convo died out. Could this have been handled better?

Dancing around the handbag was big - this should be our signature move

Me and JohnnyB took over the stage for a bit, then it was just me!

@Snake Eyes - I shoulda told you about the couch girl before you went in, I had chatted to her before and she was very drunk! Sorry man

@GLG - pure energy, loved it man

@Rebus - definitely the man on a mission that night!

Cheers matey

The sticking point I've got (apart from a moon size ego ) is that I need to focus on the physical close. Not number, email or F-Book closes.. or high energy funny man demonstrations..

...the Makeouts, the SNLs.

Doesn't matter how much of a party guy you are, how much energy you've got, if you haven't pulled at the end of the night, all you've had is a grand night out with the lads. Which is fair enough.. but not on every single night one is out with the PUA gang.

Results speak for themselves. And I need to focus on what needs to be tweaked in my game so I start getting some on a regular basis.

I've seen Snake Eyes and Rebus display some pretty good intent during our times in the field and that there is a crucial part of my game I need to work on.

A High Energy state is super for opening sets left, right and centre. Gets the whole group set up for a night out. The vibes are flowing nice and exciting. Everyone's charged up. We head out. We open. We chat. The chicks eject (because I never will.. ok sometimes the unthinkable happens ). What next? Can't be doing that all night, every night and then have chicken n' chips and head back home!

Action Points: I've decided to continue to use the high energy state that I usually get into on a night out to dive into sets everywhere. After a few sets, opening becomes like breathing and you just ride the wave.

BOUNCE is great for flushing out any residual AA.

NEXT, once in set, focus on (in this order):

1) Isolation - Get the wings into the set and take the target out of there. Something as simple as the age old "Come here, I want to show you something" whispered into her ear and lead her away by hand. Wings should engage her friends so they don't panic and make a grab for her.

2) Escalation - Chat, Dance, get physical, smile, look her in the eye, breathe and JUST FEEL sexual in my head towards this beautiful girl with me. As Tim says in the Flawless Natural, "Don't ask yourself WHAT should you do next, ask yourself what do you want to do". Go in for the makeout. No sh!t. No going for the number, no making plans for the next day, nothing. No funny high energy play. Makeout. Simple Makeout. It either happens or it doesn't. Take it from there.

3) Steps 3 onwards will focus on taking her back home. But that's not going to happen unless she's well and truly invested in me first. Hence, am going to focus on reaching the make out. Post that the hand holding romantic part of the night can start and from there proceed towards the SNL.

So for now, my focus will be on, High energy -> OPEN -> Bring them wings in if she's got company -> Isolate target -> Focus on my sexual feelings towards the girl -> Escalate -> lean in for the Makeout

Agreed a makeout will not happen with every girl. But once I've leant in for the makeout she knows where I'm coming from. If she refuses but is still friendly and smiling (and sticking around), it's a green signal. It's ON and I'm going to keep trying to get even more physical.

.. practice enough times and something should give. Will give. Must give.

TORA TORA TORA !!

P.S: Some wing-game practice would be good for us lot as well. We seem to engage the whole set (all boys talking to all girls vs lots of boys talking to lots of girls individually) which is fine whilst opening, but within seconds we need to progress into speaking to an individual girl each and turn their backs towards each other (helps isolate I've found.. she's more receptive when she can't see her mates out of the corner of her eye).

Need strong wings. Need to be a strong wing. Debrief after sets. Wash, Rinse, Repeat. We will improve through the night

Thursday 19 May 2011, Piccadilly

Craigus, Johnnyb, Markuk, NewJackSwagger, Fresher, Fora, Rebus

Had an early evening date with a cute bird. It went well – made me fifteen minutes late for the Forum meetup. Rushed over to Leicester Square / Piccadilly area on tube.

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All seven of us RV’ed at O’Neils. Laddish chat, got to know newbies and we opened some sets.

We reached TigerTiger at 9.30 PM, while it was still free. At the bar, some more chat amongst us lads.

Fresher hit the ground running, opening and ultimately #-closing a nice blonde bird. Good going, dude.

I broke off to go solo, and opened a 2-set at opposite end of bar, "HEY! YOU CAN’T GET SERVED THERE!" (Openers are irrelevant – in this case, they pointed out they were already in the process of being served; Rebus: "wow! And I thought it was impossible!"). I kept the 2set busy by standing between them, occasionally with arms around both of them to lean them into me (to be able to BOTH hear me, to keep them BOTH occupied – TigerTiger had quite loud volume despite it being only 10 PM).

My HB9 target was tall, slender, great tits, perfect skin, classy dressed. In contrast, her friend was as wide as she was tall.

I played nice-guy to the short fat friend while gradually working more on escalation of HB9. Salsa-danced with short fatty (one minute, stayed beside bar) then with HB9 (several minutes, dancefloor, kino).

Rebus: "So, you single?" / "Of course!" / "what u doin to scare away all the men?". Next, #-closed HB9 (who replied initially with "but we are not leaving yet! It’s only early") so to push for the number, I added the time-constraint that I had to find my friends and secondly that I would text her if I couldn’t find her later.

RV’ed with the others on upper floor. Opened a hot slim readhead’s group, she has good tits, some chat. Tried to keep my eyes on her face.

Later, went with Craigus and JohnnyB downstairs to re-open HB9.

Some iPad dude in a grey suite was seated next to her and trying to close her. IPad in a nightclub – gay as fuck!!!! I knew HB9 was into me, so with a delicious mix of confidence and arrogance, I tapped HB9 on shoulder, gave epic smile and spun her 180 degress to face me! HB9 gives me the chat. iPad suited dude is left staring at her back through a look of utter disbelief. Later, HB9 goes to toilet. I keep her short friend in chat and eventually get information from her about HB9.

Craigus was talking to JohnnyB but steps forward to alert me that "some dude is talking to your bird!". Yep, a new guy. So I put arm around HB9’s waist, started salsa-dancing real close. More AMOG’ing dynamite – the other guy leaves. Just before I left HB9, I talked about what we’d do when we would meet up together in central London.

Back upstairs and did some dancing. Classic club anthems. Go on!

Fora re-opened a white-corseted (yum!) bird, I said to her, with Fora in earshot “he thinks he is a top South American style dancer! He told all us guys that he could dance better than ANYONE here!” Then I walked off. As designed, HBCorset and Fora commence an in-depth dance routine rivalry for ages.

Opened a cute solo girl from a small foreign country. I’d been to her country just a year ago, so launched into my photos, which she loved. She was on route to find her friends, I said might catch you later.

Grabbed hands of two similarly dressed, similar looking hot party girls and started a Rebus 3-way FFM dance: grinding, spinning the girls, holding them both with me in the middle. After a while, couldn’t escalate further as one of them eventually comedy-mock-ran away! Her friend then joined her.

Later, some solo drunk twat tried to steal JohnnyB and my jackets. JohnnyB sorted it out. Bouncer, who was ineffective until then, chucked the thief out.

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Got the last tube; opened solo HB7 slim smiley girl on tube station’s escalator. Ten minutes later, I got her contact details. I had been to her country very recently: showed two photos. Immediately, I get off tube at my stop (perfect timing!). Provisional plan for a drink next week.

Thanks to everyone for coming along - seven people was a big group and hopefully everyone had a good one.

Good to meet some of the new guys last night. Cool dudes.

Just a couple of significant points for me last night - one was the old number that I have revitalised - see my '[C]old numbers' FR
The other was on the way home - me and JohnnyB were giving a couple of lesbians some chat on the tube, as you do, but I noticed a cutish blonde kept looking at me - smokin hot body, face was ok. (God, I sound like such a cunt, I hate it)
Kept thinking I should approach but wasn't making a move. Mine was the last stop on the tube, JohnnyB's was the one before. He got off, but the chick was still on, and she was still making loads of EC. So thought fuck it. Walked over, sat next to her and said:
'Girl, I know that if I didn't come over and say hello to you I would regret it. My name is Craig.'
She loved it.

Got her number outside the station, gave her a kiss on the cheek, and went our seperate ways, to conclude another day.

Much love,

Craigus

Good stuff!

Good to meet up with some of the guys was a fun night.