haha - Sapmi, if you are actually having sex with men on the street (consenual or not - that is another matter), I think its time you changed your mixed-set openers. Bit more kino?

(I expect to be thanked for this post)

anthony

(should be up and about on Thursday - improv then out perhaps)

I miss you Anthony

Guys,

21-27th July

Going out a bit more often now. Basically, slipping backwards a bit. Opening moderate to high amounts...not feeling it when I'm in set..girls seem to bail after a minute of opening them.

Calibration, calibration....Will not lose hope...

Keep the faith!

Week ending 26th July.
Was getting over my sudden onset of AA. I think it's over pretty much now. I Was out solo Thursday, opening sets..staying in for a couple of mins at a time, chatting to everyone, generally being friendly guy

Friday:
Went out, started to open a lot sober! Went to northern quarter, stayed in set 30 mins, tried to close, but failed...did as well as I could then..I realised later I could have bounced some of them.

Ended up in Pure. Was being pretty energetic, bouncing around on the dance floor. For a split second, K-closed a mad woman, after she wanted to start a fight with me and bit my neck...I should have persued her to the toilets!! Why do women run away after I K-close them, even the mad ones?
I watched natural tim again by the way. He says "I will persue you like no other guy on earth"...good line to use...I'll explain in a sec

I was then entertaining an irish 6 set for 45 minutes! Dancing monkey times!! (where's the intent Mark?)

Saturday:

Went out with K-Dog, Natural Tom and Sinstyle. Went to the font. Started opening sets like a bastard SOBER!!! This was after a convo I had with K-Dog about the Blueprint, and how to understand shit like like. The conversation filled me with Devil confidence for a time without needing alcohol.
I then went off to I love Sex at the Ritz solo. Awesome time. Met some absolute mental people. I had a mission when I went there. It was to try and bounce people out of the venue to my place. At least I asked the questions..no result that night. At least now I will ask the question..will get a result at some point. Some near miss K-closes, but nothing solid, no numbers but a good night, learned a few things.

Sunday..

Solo, went to this fucking awesome Punk-Ska gig. This music is mental..fucking takes everything to the 21st Century. Anyway..very interesting interaction..had a little AA to begin with..I was thinking..who are the girlfriends of the band members..lame I know, but that was. Anyway got chatting to an HB and her mate. OK interaction, a bit of kino...I'm still trying to work out how to go sexual...but I'll get it.

So while chatting to them I was thinking (no thinking Mark!!) "I can't come across too needy"....I've now discovered a mistake in my game!! I let the set go sometimes because I am scared I am coming across too needy! Anyway, this other PUA was there, (I assumed he was a PUA, or just very confident), he started to game her and stuck with her for most of the evening! Anyway I was there to just enjoy the music. So the gig ended, I got on the bus, got off and guess who got off the bus with me? That girl and her mate. The girl kind of said confusingly "why didn't you sit with us on the bus?" I just didn't see them, I swear. Anyhow, I number closed her at that moment and kissed her on the cheek.

Speech time...

Yeh, there is a fine line between being persistant and being needy. Natural Tim talks about intent. You know to the core you want to fuck her and you know to the core you can easily get her and you are the best thing for her. Add a little bit of playful rage in there, I think that is the Key for me. So as K-dog said...I can change my beliefs instantly, so with women I will be dominant with intent...I'll just know it's on..otherwise why is she speaking to me. ...I'm also going to use the line.."I choose you"...

So what can I do so far:
1) good at approaching
2) can stay in long conversations
3) use a good amount of Kino
4) Can get phone numbers sometimes
5) K-closes sometimes

Need to work on:
1) Being Sexual
2) more dominance
3) Let my intent shine

So I should be the persuer, not the needy man...or the man who just lets sets run off into the night after I've K-closed them.

Till next time....nannoo nannoo

Haha Natural Tom! Cheers!
Hopefully some people will misread this and think I am natural Tim, I think I might bleach my hair and put on an ozzie accent.
I don't actually remember much about that night I think it was the scrumpy I had to drink first went to my head.

Good to see you've pulled it back. It'll be interesting to see how the "I choose you goes" you could try "I thought you were adorable I just had to meet you" too

Mate, so many of us on here want you to do well. Just got to keep going, and keep your mind open for ideas. For me, if it doesn’t work I change it.

I'm now weary of k-closing girls on the night, if nothing else with come of it. Kowalski’s wing (devante?) once described it to me as 'Fool's mate' - and sometimes I agree with this. Also, sometimes you do it, and the girl is seeking validation ("I can still kiss a guy on the dancefloor"), and the PUA is ("I can still kiss a girl on the dancefloor"). Chances are it won’t go on from there, as there is little comfort. I’d rather not kiss lots of girls on the night, I’d rather have a few solid numbers. But then again, at times I’m not into the one night stand at all, even if it’s on the cards.

Just some thoughts – we are after different things after all.

Ps. I’m really liking your social ability – good stuff.

Pps. You are like moths around slags mate

Interesting stuff Anthony.

I'm finding the opposite true, maybe it's just because we do things differently but the girls I've kissed on the night I get better results with and more response when I text them.

It might be a mental barrier that once i've done that the rest is easy and I loosen up Or maybe i'm just a really good kisser and they can't resist

So Sapmi when's the next instalment?

Monday 27th July:

Well the bars are dead on Mondays...but in Manchester, the clubs are packed to the brim! So Monday is a good day for club game.

Before PU, I was especially lame at club game..."its too loud! how do you talk to girls?" But people actually pull at clubs! Why are there condom machines in the bogs?

So going in RSD style went into the club. Did my natural Tim woo ritual (clapped my hands and yelled, "Woo lets go!"). I came to the club close to closing time, so had to get into state quickly...but it was bloody packed in there, couldn't move, Awesome . So I hit up the first girl I see. Most of the time the first sets are shit, because I feel uncomfortable, but I have to open. I keep opening...getting my state up, pretty rapidly actually. I make sure I'm constantly doing something with PURPOSE...not just choding..I always have a mission...whether it's toilet, fag break, going to bar. I keep talking...pretty difficult at first because it was extremely packed. Hit up with some guys from the other forum, and taught one of them a game called "cock hold chicken"..fun. Anyway I found this cutey...twirled, grinded her, kissed her..asked "what you doing later" said "nothing" I said "come home with me" we grinded some more, then she said, I've lost my friends..they're outside.. I thought cool... (should I have followed her? would that have beed too needy?) Got hold of another girly soon after, grinded her, nearly K-closed, but forgot push pull.

Went out to do some ciggy game after...but I run out of TIME!!!! We all got chucked out, so I went home still in party mood...will make sure I go there earlier next time. Most of all I had fun...

Clubs especially Tiger Tiger and Pure are good, because you have the quiet seated sets in the quiet areas, you can speak to people in the ciggy part and if you fancy club game to get your state high, you can do that. Music too loud? No excuse!

Respect Sapmi, Respect, I enjoy reading your progress reports.