Diary of an trainee pick-up Artist - Pt1
 

Hi Guys...

You guys are lucky to have me posting my new Journal of experiences on this forum...:p

I was thinking of writing a blog to record my exploits, but I would like feedback and comment from others into PU. So, if it's alright with Jaz - I'm gonna formally dump all my shit here from now on.

I'm gonna set myself challenges too. Hopefully, any newbie reading this in a years time when I'm good, can take inspiration from this. I firmly believe (understand) that anyone can have an abundance of women and sex in their life, regardless of age, looks etc. Some of these reports may be boring, not much happening, or absolutely awsome. I'll just keep posting them.

Wish me luck on my continuted journey guys.....

Friday 29th May:----

Wasn't really feeling it today. I think I drank too much Vodka just before I left my house (project fallowfield). Me and Anthony toured a bit of Fallowfield - opened a few sets...not much else. We ventured to KRO, where we met up with Retro and Rudy (I think), then we bailed to Revolution in Deansgate locks. Loads of Beauties there! Nice interactions and Kino from myself there, but no good interactions from anyone I actually fancied. But I found that place fun!

Anyway, the guys wanted to bail to the Northern Quarter. So I followed them up. Went into TV21, and the punky bar-maid waved at me. I'd spoken to her a few times before. I mentioned that I've got a band. She mentioned that she had her own radio show and would love us to come on, so I took her number and e-mail etc. Fancy this girl to bits, but not sure how to escalate this one......although..I should always assume it's on!

After...the night died...wasn't allowed into Walrus because of the dodgy bouncer from last week..

Challenges for next time..........I will attempt to stay off alcohol completely :eek:
Why you may ask? I wanna be able to open sets stone sober at any time...so I better get practicing now!

Saturday and Sunday - 30/31st May

On Saturday my balls dropped off and I became happy entertainer man! Making girls laugh left right and centre, numerous closing opportunities but didn't take them.

We ended up doing after club street game. We approached alot! Clawing etc loads of ladies. I stumbled across 2 girlies sat on the curb so naturally I just went over and sat next to them. My wing sat on the other side, and I started chatting. They ignored us! So I continued mumbling..a bit cockily, so the girl turned and looked at me, and smiled..we opened it! Started chatting bollocks..we did a lot of cheek kissing and hugs, but the friend was very mouthy. My wing was doing his best trying to keep her under control. They hotty I was talking to gave he her last fag! Found they were staying at a hotel in town.... But I really didn't know how we could find an excuse to follow them in...anyway they left soon after....

I should have done a kiss close lead in like "I'm gonna regret this if I don't do...or are you spontaneous etc" She lives in Wolverhampton, so thats one reason I refrained from number closing.

Day game:
No interactions of note, just spent trying to open, or having the balls to open. I seem to be opening underage girls alot though :confused:

On Sunday, there were these girls sat in front of me on the Tram. Some kid shouted across to them. One of the girls, HBGingerHottie, got offended. I told her "hey, I think he fancies you" They giggled. We started chatting a bit. Her friend was underage. Just had doubts in my mind about closing that shit. But it was a nice interaction.

Anyway I'll be doing a lot more daygame next weekend.

Over and out, till Thursday

Weds 3rd June 2009

Went out with my wing and Darood (briefly). I was feeling shy and a little stifled at first. We went to Lloyds bar. Approached one set, blown out (blank looks on their faces)

Anyway, went to 5th Avenue , got a few drinks and chilled. Not approaching much at all. My wing opened a set, got chatting to one of the girls there. Kinoed her, (claw, handholding etc). But then she was dragged off by her mate. I bumped into her a few times that night. IT felt she was well into me, kept saying "hi", holding hands and then getting dragged off by her mate.

I approached a 2 set, interaction went pretty well..but I choded out, so they ejected to the dance floor.

I saw these two gorgeous ladies who where with two guys. They wern't really touching each other that much, were they in couples? So I went to chat to one of the guys. He was cool as fuck! So friendly he was unreal. I opened other guys around there too. Opening other guys up to be friendly to you makes it so much easier to solo sarge! I'm gonna open guys a lot more now. When say I go to Australia, or the US, I wanna be in a position where I can just walk into a bar a talk to anyone!

The bad point of the night was that I had an inner nervousness and uneasiness, amplified by some of the blowouts I had (the worse blow-out for me I could ever have is a lady giving me a blank look--that hurts me). There were times I just had to stop...meditate on "I feel happy, I feel OK" then concentrate on my breathing...then force myself to take action.

Over and out till Saturday...

No point going out sarging unless we've had a jam and songwriting sesh marc ! That shit gets me pumped up

Thanks Swype,

I was gonna touch on that kind of thing. Kowalski called me the other day about mentioning the processes that are going on inside that big thick skull of mine, the 'inner game'.

I personally think this is paramount to success in becoming a pimp. Any time I have been successful with women (whether it be making out, lays etc) I can wholeheartedly say it was because I was in a certain state of mind, where it was 'inevitable'. Gold came streaming from my mouth, my body language was sound, I was feeling as high as a kite. If I could feel like that all the time, who needs routines? Who needs to 'learn' game?

My 'game' (like a game of chess to be played), is with myself. I am and i'm not a work in process. Sometimes I'm the finished article and sometimes I'm not.. I'm just working to be the finished article more often.

I'm working towards being 'in state' all the time, not just during sarging. This is where I want to feel anything is possible all the time. I intend to do this in three ways:

1) Don't let negative thoughts in......use thinking only to think 'useful thoughts'..not to let my thoughts run away in negative threads

2) Approach, approach, approach. My skill level will go up automatically

3) Do stuff that amuses 'me'....do stuff I'm interested in. I've been the family man, business man etc... Not interested anymore! I love my little jamming sessions with Swype! I'll be doing the Sapmister world tour aswell so watch this space.

Whats the meaning of life to me? I have 5 commandments of Sapmister, but one of them is HAVE FUN!!

Over and Out

Good points sapmi.

Inner game is the only game you need. That's why inner game should be the main thing everyone concentrates on. Outer game will follow.

The bit about opening as much as poss is so true. Experience is the best way to learn anything. If you open enough, it's impossible not to become a successful pua.

If you are reading Tolle's The Powerful Now, there are times we can't help having these thoughts or any kind of thoughts but the key is watching the thoughts and detached from it. To quote:

"The voice (thoughts) comments, speculates, judges, compares, complains, likes, dislikes, and so on. The voice isn't necessarily relevant to the situation you find yourself in at the time; it may be reviving the recent or distant past or rehearsing or imagining possible future situations. Here it often imagines things going wrong and negative outcomes; this is called worry......Even if the voice is relevant to the situation at hand, it will interpret it in terms of the past"!
Dont forget to pump those irons...get those mucle definition :D

Friday June 5th,

Thank fuck for the weekend! Anyway, met up with a few of the guys from the forum, and we went to the Font bar. I wasn't really feeling it yet. Opened (ish) this 6 set. Told me to go away. Then one of their guy mates came and said "they would come and talk to you if they wanted to speak to you, go away"...
I felt shit after that. I had to get out of there. Never been properly amogged before - this was my first time.
Anyway, we went to Revolution then in Deansgate locks. I like this venue, big, loads of ladies, and pretty friendly. Started to open quite a few sets, but I was ejecting alot aswell, not really feeling it. I opened some guys too and got some wingmen, which was fun. Opened with Something like "what are the women like here?" then went on to "lets get some women tonight"
Befriending other guys is getting easier now - I did sarge solo towards the end of the night, so it was easier because of the friends I made that night.

Hopefully I'll have a better Saturday..

Mate i wouldn't worry about it.. i got headbutted in the side of the face one night if you remember, just ignore the stupid shit, they are just jelous of your game, nothing else. :D

would loved to of been out but had something else on this weekend. Hopefully see you out next weekend my friend.

Saturday 7th June

One thought..the "game" is not "what do I say to the girl, how do I impress her" with me it is "how do I impress myself...make myself feel good and sexworthy all the time" It's a simple concept, but may take me time to figure this out.

Anyway, we did some Kareoke at the start of the night. There were quite a few of us out at one point (you all know who you are ;) ) I sang Spandau Ballet, the Clash and the Specials (fucking loved it)...it hyped me up a little. Not many girls there. Approached 2 or 3 sets there, nothing significant.

Anyway, most of the guys went on. My wing was waiting for his housemate to sing a song, so I said I would meet him in Pure. So I went solo in Pure for a time.

Basically whilst solo, I was befriending guys and spinning girls on the dance floor. Saying to guys "what are the girls like in here?" then approaching girls, getting hi-5s from them for spinning etc. My state was increasing even more, very rapidly. Anyway, my wing walked in later...and then something clicked for a second...I was excited to see him...then I became a sexworthy pimping mofo for 5 mins!

Grabbed hold of a girl, started to grind her...she stuck her tongue out, I stuck mine in.....booom, full make out for a minute. Man her tongue was so long it nearly choked me. Then I'm not sure what happened, it stopped, I kind of lost her,

I thought..."plenty more makeouts where this came from", but no sir....every girl I tried to spin, approach or even talk to Blew me out!! I had so many blow outs that night it was not even funny!! :eek:

So, ups and downs there, but, this weekend, I got a lot of rejection. I need to look at all this with indifference, and in the cold light of day, carry on, approach!

Until next Thursday....over and out....