Today 10th Jan.
A chance encouter leads to a instant date and a set up for a d2 at modern art oxford. Its very kind of you to read on by doing so your'll be reading about how i talked on topics including , art ,hair dye, pea- cocking and there are a few jokes thrown in .. naturally. Thanks to the RSD blueprint decoded to give me this boost. seriously you had to be there ... !

OXFORD. Headington.London Rd. Boots to Starbucks...(Here comes the girl... love it Boots rocks)

Spot Blonde HB 7.5 Pixie Lott type with hot boots and crazy head band warmer thing... So i ran up alongside... as she walked in to Boots at same time I choose to go in

Opened and said: Happy new year ! seriously check your head gear !! wheres that from ?

HB7.5: (shocked) oh !! err what? happy new year ..its new look (laughing)

Golden:ha you mean new look for the year (jokes)... not out of a cracker then ! ... so then not a present either ...???

HB7.5: I'm too old for presents.

(HB7.5 is 21. fine art student... we've now walked up2 the hair colour section)
Golden:yeah right too old .. so i wont be ever giving you anything (cocky funny flirty)

HB7.5:You're a bit forward....

(ignoring)

Golden: Okay let me guess so you're going to dye your hair (sarcastic)

HB7.5: You're pretty observant haha (sarcastic)

Golden: yeah well i noticed you're crazy head gear.... do you wear it so you can't :whip your hair back and forth ? whip your hair back and forth ...(she laughs and breaks it into fits as i keep repeatedly singing it at her .... ala willow smith) ...so let me guess you're going to dye it red???
(HB7.5 is a fake Blondie)

HB7.5:Nah i just need to redo roots...

Golden:Well dye it some crazy hair colour i might be interested in hanging out with you... just i have tooo many blondes already... something like red that would give you a dangerous edge

HB7.5: Well we have too many people on our course with red hair so no ... i like to be different in a different way like wearing my ear warmers you noticed those didn't you

Golden: (i kinda ignore) Hmm yea so very different you take new look -the chain shop look !! (check my watch) anyways i literally have 22 minutes so once you stop holding me up from buying my lip balm (what else!) you can come with me to Starbucks and continue this awesome chat i wanna hear more art talk!

(After 10 seconds or so of laughter and me looking seriously deadpan ... first time she seen me serious as ive joked the way through this...)

HB7.5: Yeah go on then why not (smiling)
Golden replies: err way more enthusiasm please !

she complies and touches my hand , cant say my heart went, but i was touched literally !

i then say you can only touch my hand when we cross the road.. but I'm guessing you'd use the traffic lights...(Starbucks is across the road)

HB7.5: why do you say that?

Golden:coz you're not someone who lives dangerously .. like if you were one of the crazy dyed red headed art people... i mean i wouldn't even have to comment on your head gear are you pea-cocking or something!! ...

(i explain what pea-cocking is to her, she seemed to think i was same-sex from my fashion knowledge ! HB7.5 insists she was wearing head gear for practical use)

HB7.5:ha well i could set you up with this guy on my course, he has funky blue/red hair maybe you'd get as you can't handle any more blondes in your life.

Golden: (ignore her plea and attempted frame) Well i might be interested but would he laugh as much as you do ..

HB7.5: well i think you're pretty funny.(compliment)

Golden: (in style of ricky gervais) cut off point.

HB7.5: what ?

Golden:always remember the cut off point! you're pretty... ! and then you hit me with your second compliment

HB7: (laughing and confused) which is??

Golden: Something about me being funny !... anyway like let me get my balm and go

At the till i use the advantage card to my advantage and when paying the guy asks if i have a boots card.
i 'm like yeah and hes like "can you put it in there " referring to card holder and i say ....

THAT'S WHAT SHE SAID (making out HB7.5 as the SHE)...jajaja!!!

laughs all round...shop assitant lovin it !

i hugged her after my lil playfull ways

From there when we came out of boots (bouncing i believe is the term?) to Starbucks (other coffe houses are avaliable) and approached the road...

So get this now HB7.5 asks me to hold hands !! "so are we holding hands as we are risking our lives not crossing the road at traffic lights?"

HB7.5 claimed she was trying to prove a point by not crossing at lights...

Golden proved a point by letting go of her hand after we crossed...

Starbucks (please note other coffee houses are avaliable LOL!): we briefly talked more about what we do and i was somewhat interested in the art and her passion for it and as i had to jet i mention how interesting modern art is and have set up a D2 for thurs...Number closed and it is only then she realized she never knew my name...

HB7.5 asked me for it as i took her name and swapped numbers.

Golden says i ll tell you Thurs.... you'll just have to think about ME till then ...!


HB7.5 has since kindly sent me a text "LOL such fun meeting you earlier if i guess your name rite before thurs will you tell. ??xx"

I wont be contacting her till Thurs just the way i roll.
And now i'm just gonna relax with a glass of milk.......apparently pixie drinks lots

Keep it natural

jaja ty amigo !!
i just saying thats all i'm really not one for writing posts. must learn more.
that's what shes said was on american workllace the office not my pharses anyone can have... was natural in this one so it went swell...

Well done man, your game is solid as always I'm actually free tonight now if you fancy meeting up. Anton should be out as well.

/Loke

I used to live in Oxford, in 2000. I lived in Jericho, I remember Headington and going drinking in the Purple Turtle, Oxford Union, and up the Cowley Road. There were loads of techno parties in houses and out in the country, mad old days.

@ loke ty and nice belt you purcashed yester! But next time let me sit in the cool seat !
jaja remember that guy at the coffee shop longing for his younger days!

@ midas ty for your time and comments.
Oxford is a wild historic place !!


I guess to say what i learnt from this set is that i was instant and natural
i kept it flowing and i was somewhat fortunate for the girl to be amazingly friendly she had a great vibe and got the humour thing. Of course there are many occasions when the girl hasnt been suited to me.

I use to blame others (the girls) and then i blamed myself and now i'm just trying to say "what the hey!"

IMO and thats what counts my game is no way totally solid but i just have to go with it and try and continue to improve. 1 out 4 yesterday open to close going about my day.

And let me end this post with some humour

I remember going to the club and trying it on with girls they just didnt want to know...so i tried to avoid being humiliated by going up to the ugliest, fattest chick and asking, "hey babe, wanna suck me off?" - but it was to no avail, she merely replied, "not in a million years".

I ended up at home alone having a wank and crying.

You may be wondering what the joke is here.

It was me.

what's that you say keep it up ??

(101% Successful Chat up line)

Your dad must have been a chicken farmer because you sure know how to raise a cock.

It was good up until the point you said you're not going to contact her until Thursday. Talk about crossed signals.

You start off appearing as this open and spontaneous guy, and then you hold off continuing the conversation with her (as well as missing out on some pre-D2 text escalation).

Spin it around. A girl starts chatting to you, you give her your number and then you don't hear from her for days. Guarantee that you'll think "fuck her then" and mentally move on. We've all been there.

My thought on the matter is don't play games or be a douche, if you like the girl, just text her

@BCB ty for your comments and time amigo.

Totaly hear what you are saying. There is not any doubt at that all this D2 escalating texting phone call stuff is often necessary.

I like the girl and i think what works for someone won't work for another. On this occasion I am not contacting her till thurs. (she has left me a v. mail wondering about thurs but she only has 1 day to wait)

As i see it all girls have validity, importance and equality of respect and thats how i treat them. Come thursday she has chocie to decide her destiny, and her decision can be changed.

You say you have respect for her, but at the same time you're insisting on ignoring her voicemail just to "play games" (which no matter how much you sugarcoat it is what you're doing)

If she's anything like some of the girls I know, don't be surprised if she ends up bailing for being messed about and you don't get d2.

Why is it you think that dropping her a text right now simply saying "hey, looking forward to tomorrow - still on for x o'clock?" is a bad thing? Why do you think waiting is a good idea.

I'd be pissed if someone was making me wait to confirm plans because I might be getting other offers to do stuff. I can't see what's to be gained by messing her about

Awesome time yesterday because thats the way she come though like whoo hoo...

So when i met HB7.5 she was with 3 friends apparently they didnt believe her lil story and wanted to see golden for themselves... so we spent the first few minutes exchanging names jaja i totally forgot that i didnt give my name ... this is something she busted me for straight away "ha you just said your name to (her friend)"
So there were laughs all round.. i threw out a few high fives HB7.5 amigas went off to cult clothing.. we went to see art

Ok so like after busting me on the name thing i would bust her on her whole youve been talking about me so lots to ya freinds thing ...

In oxford modern art , as part of an exhibition, a film called end of love was showing i recommend this to oxford peeps -take the girls there. We toured the gallery and saw part of this film. Banter and kino along the way.

HB7.5 said more than once that she loved the randomness of our meeting and this whole d2...
(this was great insight into her personality)

After 45 minutes or so we went and sat down at the gallery cafe

HB7.5: I've never really been on a date like this

Golden: this is n't a date i hardly know you

HB7.5 oh ok well its randomly nice whatever it is

i look straight into her eyes

Golden: You know it is randomly nice ..LIFE IS RANDOM...

she blinked ridiculously and giggled

Golden:that's cute

HB7.5:what is?

Golden: the way you keep blinking sio you just cant take your eyes off me...
pause

Hb7.5 (biting her bottom lip.. looking at my lips)

kissy kissy jajaja

Golden: wow that was random (wink)

HB 7.5 smiles kisses again.


This chick continued to be herself with me and was just the same as the other day.

i agreed that i'd reply to try and replie to her sms from now on ...I'll see what happens but it was a great time with a kool chick.

@ BCB yo again amigo ty for comments and time
sure i hear you dude. But what works for some doesnt work for another

I understand where youre coming from and i guess you really need to be there at these moments.
HB7.5 is way arty and quirky and shes seems like a free spirit. As she has been totally kool with the way i have been and acted.
Reading the signals of the particular chick meant IMO that was the way to do things.

She responded accordingly. yeah other chicks i would act accordingly .

ty again for your time in reading.

i'll always try and do it differently with a chick as everyone is unique and hey ! sometimes it does not go.