Friday 28 January 2011
Rebus, JohnnyB, Craigus & later on
Arkanzie
Earlier in the day, I'd been out on a lunch date with a hot girl that works near me. Evening time, and I met JohnnyB and Craigus at Cargo around 8.45 PM. Cargo was packed and I wasn’t in my groove. We opened some sets - nothing of note except JohnnyB losing his scarf!
We stood like some AFCs against a wall feeling lame and tired. I knew the solution: energy drinks! Let’s leave Cargo, head to a newsagent and each down an energy drink.
Suitably revived, we walked across Hoxton (f-r-e-e-z-i-n-g cold night) to another nightclub. As we walked in, JohnnyB briefly opened a slim Lithuanian bird smoking outside.
I WANNA FUCK YOU IN THE ASS
We got the drinks in and Lithuanian bird reappears to give JohnnyB the chat. I touched her on the cheek and she responded aggressively. How could I top that? Well, as part of a game we were playing that night with overtly direct sexual escalation language, I worked into the convo the repetition to her four times in a row of “
I wanna fuck you in the ass”. How did this aggressive girl respond to this outrageous statement?
By spinning around and saying that it says “McKenzie” on her ass! (a huge logo).
Well, she had been drinking...!
JohnnyB continued the chat on a less offensive basis; I privately commented to Craigus, “this is an opportunity for JohnnyB to play good copy to my bad cop”. That was a cue for Craigus and me to head towards the 2-set that I had briefly opened earlier on route back from the toilet.
Preceded by much fanfare, Arkanzie turned up almost two-and-a-half hours late so we gave him a right slagging.
Summary of outcomes with the 2 set:
- Craigus e-mail closed the slim blonde girl – an outgoing cutie.
- I fuck-closed my target (her friend): a size 8, 5’5” hot piece from the Middle East. No LMR.
FORCE A TIME CONSTRAINT
My timings are approximate, but I reckon that the second time I talked to my target was 10.50 PM and by 12.50 PM I was fucking her – including the time taken to travel back to her flat. At 12.05 PM I announced that me and her were leaving (to catch the last tube of the night - what an awesome time constraint, which I bigged-up to give urgency to leaving! I already had my sexual hook points with her, as I'll explain below).
NON-JUDGEMENTAL FRAME
Did a strategy chat with my crew to explain my concerns over women from hardcore Islamic religious cultures in Middle East. Then I thought, “fuck it!” and chatted to my bird again.
I used a heavily loaded non-judgemental frame (used on two distinct occasions) nuggets were “Wow! It must be so different the
liberal, outgoing, modern culture over here in London compared to the culture over in the Middle East.” and “you must love living here, it's a chance to be open, to expresses yourself… being open to new things... to enjoy living in London when you are no longer have the way your culture constrains women from studying, working and expressing themselves.”
Some lesbians kissed in face-hugger style nearby to silly overreactions by a nearby group (they took photos! Losers!). I seized on this, “that’s what London’s like, it's
so much more liberal than other places – gay or straight, it doesn’t matter – what would happen to these girls in Middle East?” / “they… they would be killed - executed” / “Exactly… here people express their sexuality without any crazy overreactions”.
UK Liberal Expression 1 -- 0 Middle Eastearn Religious Control
SEXUAL EXPRESSION AT NIGHTCLUB
- Sexual expression through sexual language;
- Sexual expression through kino (back massage) with NLP language around it: “as I work your back, feel it work deep into your body” & “inside you” & “deep inside you” & “this is just a basic massage, to do it properly, I’d need you lying down”.
- Sexual expression through wildly salsa dancing in the space around us;
- Sexual expression through eye contact and holding her close with arm around her waist; during most of my time talking with her in the bar, we were joined at the hips.
- + passionate slow kissing
Update: After I left, JohnnyB k-closed & #-closed the passive-aggressive Lithuanian. Nice one! Get her ass, mate!