Great night on Wednesday, Cheers for Rebus for arranging it. And tebbs for some great advice.

After meeting everyone at the spoons, we headed to O’Neal’s next door. As we got in I saw a great set of four girls, and approached them with a canned, which was actually a situational a few nights ago.

tuffleo: "Hey guys, Could I get a small advice on something, *Pause & looked if i had all of theirs attention, with an innocent smile on my face*, My friend's girlfriend has just gone home with her best friend for some reason and we don’t know why, Now he's all confused as to should he actually stay with us lot, or go talk to her if something is wrong"

(Being a newbie, I use this to get over my AA, though tebbs has recommended me not to, I’ll try to take his advice from next time)

*Irrelevant stuff, Then me irrelevant stuff*

Tuffleo: *noticing two of the girls were wearing the same reading 2010 rest band as me* Hey You guys went to reading *showing my band *

Two girls: Omg cool, who was your favourite? *transition done*

At this point seeing I was giving more attention to the other once, they interrupted me by telling me that they go to reading university, which I replied with " oh cool, so what do you do", Then i got interrupted by the other two again with something else.

Struggling to keep all of them occupied, Rebus came in, and these are the girl I'm guessing he's talking about as the Students set.

Having only two of them to keep occupied got a bit easier, and I don’t remember how the conversations went after this but My Aim was to talk to my target less and talk to the less attractive girl more. Which worked for a while and then for some reason I just felt like I couldn’t get the girl alone or something so i didn’t feel like carrying and I said good bye to the group and came back to our group.

After this I almost managed to destroy tebbs set, which I'm so sorry about btw. One recommendation, don’t do anything if you aren’t confident about it or have a plan beforehand!

After this we went to O’Neal’s which had no good sets but a nice environment, I opened another set, which started shit testing me from the start, and I being a newbie, 'Crash and burnt'

But I did learn a lot from everyone else’s body language. And confidence.

Hope to sarge with you guys soon again

Tuffleo

Tebbs bro,That's one of the most helpful threads Iv ever read!

no probs matre, but all I did was explain the 10 hook lead system a bit and give you some advice from what myself and my wings have learnt though trial and error...

biggest advice I can give is DONT GIVE UP,HAVE FUN, and get some good wings who will encourge you and pick you up when your on bad nights....

The first few months are shit, and its very easy to jack it in.

Ive met some great friends doing this, they know who they are, and without them, I would of given up months ago...

Friday 21 January 2011

Sarged with Anarkzie around Hoxton.

Really good night, as we had a ton load of fun.

Anarkzie found a bright yellow mustard bottle on the floor. I said, "pick it up!! it is your new AA-defeating approach tool!! we are gonna sarge with that!! you are gonna open everyone with this mustard!! you are the mustard salesman!! hold it high up in front of you!! this is the coolest mustard of all time!! get people to buy it!!"

Anarkzie opened many sets with bright yellow mustard bottle. A mixed five set. A two set.A three set (2m, 1f) where I kept the two males in chat, to allow Anarkzie to focus on the bird, via Q&A I quickly established that they had no romantic or sexual thing with the bird, and I moved so that I faced the men and physically stood between them and Anarkzie + bird.

Some ppl said they only want English mustard!! It was apparently French mustard. The convo continued regardless.

Outside, Anarkzie number closed a blondie and he was nice and direct, told her he think she is cute and let's get together.

My night? I took two number closes, a kissing & simulated sex close.

(Fooling around for ages in a darkened corner of a late-night pub. It was a bird I met on the street and lead to the nearest pub and within thirty minutes escalated it to this size 8 bird grinding on my lap; she was clothed, but with thin tights. I said various classics like "DAMN girl! your pelvic muscles are really working my cock"), and not one but two aborted f-closes (including her, "I'm not that kind of girl" (!)). Non-simulated sex: zero. Fail. Damn.


Saturday 22 January 2011

Seminar: Me, tebbs, Craigus, monkeybuster, top-hat, Three Greens, and more.

Later on: Snake Eyes and Stein

I had had five hours sleep - bed 4am, up at 9am - and rushed over late to the seminar.

Daytime - we hit the Daygame Revolution seminar (£20 each, so we all piled in; 130 people).

Post-seminar, all of the visitors from PUA Forum hit a quiet pub near where the seminar was held. We chatted PUA and self-improvement in detail like some really crazy dudes; I really enjoyed all that chat - but monkeybuster had to head off after this for his train.

In that pub, I closed an air hostess blonde. My failing here was an interesting one about setting frames:

- met her at the bar
- she was waiting to meet a blind date at the pub
- I think blind dates implies relationships theme (MY FAILING?)
- That frame was shown by my language with (later on), I said "I am single" and she was saying something about "being single"
- When I tried to close her she went all excitable about not looking for any relationship, as she spends 75% time travelling due to being air hostess. I did a quick context-shift towards a more short-term attachments, sexual, hook-up vibe.
- This lead to her relenting and me closing her.
- But it could have been more geared for a sexual angle had I figured out this bird (maybe by: find out job -> ah, you're air hostess, all the travel must be terrible for relationships, I guess single suits you as into short term action?) [... dunno, is that lame?]. But as I don't Q&A the shit out of ppl to find their job, and she was on a blind date (that is very relationship'y I think), and an early evening quiet pub, I didn't set the frame of casual hookups. Hmm.

After that, Me, Craigus, tebbs and his wing, RV'ed with Snake Eyes and Stein.

Leicester Square and Covent Garden.

I quickly closed an Italian bird; her English is a bit pants, but it was very noisy in O'Neils. She's tall and cute. Hmm... Italians, worth the hassle? My Italian bird last year was a real go-er in the bedroom. But this one didn't have that same sexual vibe.

Reading our-man-abroad's field reports - Midas Touch - about Italians vs. Catholicism Anti-Sex-Before-Marriage, can I be motivated to contact this one and see, or is it a waste of time for me? I'm a busy man, I want results.

You know, reflecting on this, my sexual frame with her were limited to "you're cute" said on two occasions, kino and "I know you've been here a year, but you're still a TOURIST! That means you should do some NEW STUFF. You're a TOURIST, you should do some NEW STUFF while you're in London." (Credit to Yad PUA for that nugget; it shows something from the seminar wore off on me.)

i need to go out with you guys.
night out next week maybe?

Yes Fox we're out every week. If you're making the trip over from the valleys to London, give me a shout mate.

Great to meet up with some of you on Saturday. Sorry I had to bail out on you all afterwards but I had a stag do in Brighton that night.

Looking forward to meeting up again sometime soon when Im back from the USA

BTW Do any of you do LGW Airport Nights ???

three greens...

yes captain freedom and cashy do the lgw night....

send captain freedom an email

tebbs

gutted I missed the daygame rev on Sat, this man flu kept me in bed all weekend, it sounds like u guys had fun.

I can imagine anarkzie with the mustard bottle in his hand

yep. iv got nameless' mob.
il be in touch.