Sunday, no approaches.
Still went for a walk around town, saw a couple of maybes, but didn't approach due to apathy. As I said they were "maybes". There weren't many people around due to wind and rain anyway. I had a look in some supermarkets, nothing about really. But I must keep the momentum going. I really need to work on my "spur of the moment" approaches. These are where I will meet most women day to day, mainly in the supermarket. But it is also when I am "out of state". |
Interesting post, a lot of that is contrary to what I've seen in day gaming videos though.
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I am not needy at all. A bad approach is better than no approach! The chick that blanked me was just rude. I even gave her another chance by reapproaching but she didn't want to know. Quote:
If that's not confident I don't know what is! I try to remain as dominating as possible. Quote:
The reason I've approached her isn't to do with her shopping, I could care less about that, I've approached her because I am attracted to her on an instinctual level. Quote:
One of my favourite's is "I love you" or to gesture to her and say "Wow!". Or to blatantly say "I'm approaching you because I find you quite pretty". It's the approach that counts, not the out come! Quote:
Again, all the material that I've read suggests that going indirect puts you on a hiding to nothing. You aren't learning to be up front with a chick at all by going indirect. Asking for directions is the oldest trick in the book and chicks lose a lot of respect for guys that aren't masculine enough to go direct. It's the definition of creepy! Quote:
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Trust me, there weren't any targets around, it was winding and pissing with rain. The way I see it, indirect/situational is just for people who are afraid of rejection. You actually NEED rejections to make you stronger. Also, it's a complete myth that being horny makes you more likely to approach. Read my thread on my experience with that nofap load of bollocks. Being horny just leads to neediness in the best case or rapey vibes in the worst case. http://www.puaforums.co.uk/general-c...nce-nofap.html Going direct shows confidence and as you said in your previous post non confident techniques like not going direct will set off their creep alarm. |
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Guys, stop derailing the thread -
https://www.strangerdimensions.com/2...er-dimensions/ Peace, kowalski |
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So I really don't know what to do. I'm not sure about showing empathy, I know you are not supposed to react too much to the woman's response otherwise it seems unmanly. Quote:
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I try to say it in a sort of jokey way, I might not always pull it off. Quote:
Like you want her to like you if you smile. Quote:
Yes I watch both of them and they are the guys who I base my "vibe" on. I've learnt a lot from their videos. Quote:
Self amusement as they call it. |
Anyway I did a couple today.
One young girl at the train station who worked at a bar until midnight (so at least I knew she was legal). I hesitated around a fair bit until I finally approached her. I walked near her, then back away, then pretended to look at the information display, before finally approaching. The conversation was so one sided it was beyond belief, but for some reason I kept it going until she got a phone call which I think she was relieved to get. I opened indirect asking her which train she was getting, didn't even give her a compliment because the conversation wasn't going anywhere. I was asking all the questions and she just wasn't interested at all, I should have made a move to get outta that one. Then the train came and she got on. Approach 2 An older Polish lady actually on the train (quite ballsy for me but it was quite a quiet train for a change) This one felt much more natural, I asked her which way she was going, talked about what we each did for work, exchanged names etc, kept it going until she got off at her stop and it felt quite good and natural. I did say Polish ladies were the prettiest, so quite a weak general compliment there, but expressed interest none the less. This just felt like a normal and natural conversation, much better than the young girl at the train station. Approach 3 (aborted) Saw a younger chick in Sainsbury's when I got back to my local town, first saw her talking to one of her colleagues (she was off duty but worked there) I did a couple walk bys but from her face she looked 16, although her body which a nice figure, so I didn't approach her. From the brief glimpses I got of her face she looked really young, I couldn't really tell, so I didn't approach. Maybe I should have just approached, but say what? How can I go low pressure, but direct? Anyway, I'm really not sure whether or not I should have approached her, from behind she looked early-mid 20s, but from her face she looked young, this seems to be my biggest anxiety is age related. It feels kinda awkward if I've just complimented a 16 or 17 year old girl on her figure, ya know? |
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Tom Torrero! Tony is so full of shit. If you don't think Torrero is creepy, you have 0 social skills and are a virgin. Don't even know or care who the others are.
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Who made you the moral police? It's not illegal to talk to an underaged girl (even though 16+ is legal). I've approached a 15 year old girl before and that was in front of a load of people waiting at the bus stop! It's just a bit of fun and nothing wrong with approaching. There is no point in having age anxiety. Read Dan300's day game diary where he worries about approaching based on age and then realises there's nothing to worry about. And DON'T forget, it's impossible to exactly guess a woman's age. If you pussy out of approaching chicks who look too young that pretty much means you are limiting yourself to chicks 35+. |
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