It seems shes going to be at future meetings so we can be friends / colleagues and it might develop into more. Theres no rush to bang her tonight.

and it feels wierd typing this when shes sitting not far behind me.

Would be funny if she herself was on this forum doing the same thing...

if you become freinds/colleagues then your chances of this happening are pretty slim IMO. Best striking when you first meet, if and when there's tension and if its exciting. Otherwise she'll just polarize toward categorising you in her head as a nice safe friend, then your pretty much fucked.

I can't deny my motive and intention for approching and talking to women is because I want to fuck them.im getting better at putting that across in the sub communication. Following through is an issue at the moment.

Serendipity, I honestly think you have a fear of pulling the trigger

You've made lots of positive changes the past few months where you have done things regardless of other peoples thoughts on you

You have said many times about wanting to fuck this and that girl

But when an opportunity presented itself you didn't follow through because of what some people who you don't really know and rarely see will think?..

Serendipity, what really helped me with day game was watching others do it. I know it may sound a little pussyish, but thats what got me going. It's that feeling of not only seeing a smile on your boys face, but also being peer-pressured into doing it.
It helps both short-term and long-term, I am now pulling the trigger everywhere, because I'm not scared of it. This doesn't mean I'm not socially intelligent, I do understand work is work, play is play. But I am sick and tired of hearing "I went and did x and saw a sexy woman but didnt approach", I know you can do it and we all know you can do it, you've gotta seriously stop teasing us (pun intended).
I've already said to you we can do some day game when your back.

I hear what you're saying guys and appreciate it. Not pulling the trigger has been a long standing issue with me.

I'm heading back to blighty later today. I had a few free hours this morning and went for a relaxing wander around the town. Sun was out nice and warm.

Saw two chicks sitting outside a cafe so sat at the table next to them and got a coffee.

There was a hot eastern asian looking waitress there. She passed a few times and I got eye contact and a smile from her.. green light. She stood near me to have a cigarette break so I started talking. Unfortunately her english wasn't good. She apologised for that.

In my head I imagined taking her hand and kissing her but felt too self conscious. There was attraction there as she kept making eye contact each time she passed.

Went on walking and saw another chick with a similar ethnicity to the waitress. She stopped to look in a shop window so I approached. I asked if she spoke english. She hesitated then said 'non' and walked away. I was too timid I reckon. Having a hangover doesn't help.

Passing a bus stop got eye contact from a chick waiting there. I circled around to go back and she literally just got on her bus before I got there. The language issue is shit, though some of my basic holiday French has started to come back to me today.

See there ya go, it's a start. Well done son.

Now do it when you get back.

Bizarre thing happened when I got home today. Had got a match on tinder this morning (when I was in france). Assumed it was one I'd swiped whn in london as her profile tag was in english. But noticed the distance was showing her as 1500 odd miles away. I thought the app had just got buggy.

We chatted for a while tonight on whatsapp after I got home then it turns out she lives in moscow!

wtf?

We both thought it was funny. It's a bit far for a date!

Yeah when you live in London, you'll hit people visiting all the time. I've noticed, they usually chat more too.