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Shahanshah · 04-08-2014, 07:07 PM

Serendipity why don't you debate and argue properly? It would stop all the constant repetition of the same points against you. Kowalski and others always say stuff and you evade it. The main reason being that your responses give the impression you know you are wrong or are too immature to reply and express yourself.

You shoot yourself in the foot with that behaviour because even your wings on here end up posting and agreeing against you. At 46 you should be able to articulate and debate yourself.

When I first started posting a lot I had people criticising Mr aloooooooooot but I always made my points clear amidst the arguing and shit going down. Then feel free to throw shit back at people

top-hat · 04-08-2014, 07:14 PM

I didn't think it was over analytical. Rather it was simplified so much it could've been read as patronizing. But that's cut throat, some people like it some don't.

top-hat · 04-08-2014, 08:47 PM

Serendipity everyone wants to help. Clearly there is something not quite working for you. Why not give everyone a chance? I know it seems everyone is having a go but just this once let the advice in.

SmileyK · 04-08-2014, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Serendipity

...because drink is perceived as being a normal social activity and lowers inhibitions, making seduction easier...apparently. And drinkers don't like to drink alone do they? I know I never did.

Are you saying there's an advantage in me not drinking even if she's drinking or no disadvantage at all. If she said she believed in god I wouldn't say I did too just to please her. I wouldn't be doing it to please her, I'd be doing it to make the seduction easier.

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Originally Posted by Serendipity

Inauthentic sex would do me just fine at the moment.

*throws hands up*

Man, with this kind of talk there may not be any sex for a while. Particularly the bit in bold, which completely contradicts itself.

If you have made a decision not to drink alcohol, you don't have to explain it away to someone, particularly someone you don't know (i.e. the girl). If she makes a big deal of it, so what?

That post from Kowalski was money, particularly this:

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Originally Posted by kowalski

If you are being something you are not and you don't get the girl, this is a lose and you won't be happy.
If you are being something you are not and you get the girl, this is a lose and you won't be happy.
If you are being yourself and you don't get the girl, this is a win and you will be happy.
If you are being yourself and you do get the girl, this is a win and you will be happy.

Over-analytical, or the naked truth? You decide

amit1207 · 05-08-2014, 07:54 AM

Serendipity you have to ask yourself a question, why everyone in this forum resonating the same thing? Kowalski might be wrong in your opinion, but then why everyone here is agreeing with him?

And if everyone is wrong and you are right, then why you are not getting any results?

Sugarspin · 05-08-2014, 08:53 PM

When I met you, you came across as highly intelligent and rational (not a cnut as has been chimed already!), although heavily steeped in PUA mythology!

Echoing Amit1207's post and the consensus - people of all different experience levels and backgrounds seem unequivocally convinced that your approach isn't working.
Surely as a rational guy you have to take that on board?
You come across as being very stubborn!

How long are you prepared to give it before you accept that you need to shake up your approach and have you actually set a target for this?

One week, a month, 5 years? Warned in the retirement home for pulling Yads on the new arrivals?

Are you still consuming PUA material?

Also do you think that if at some point you bang one girl, that the drawbridge to girl kingdom will suddenly be down and you'll charge in on your steed and maraud at will and it will all have been worth it?

I've followed your diary on and off for months mate, but it's been more akin to rubbernecking a car crash than to glean any nuggets of wisdom from you-sorry!

I will say one thing though, it's been memorable stuff.
Your pain and honesty interspersed with your colourful descriptions (old Jamaicans with stinky shoes, zebedee yad-ing PUAs, the hooker episode) as you plummet to a new low has been fascinating.

I caveat my comments by saying that whatever you or anyone on here wants to do is of no real concern to me, but I do wish you and everyone on here success in trying to improve.
I'd like nothing better to see you post up you banged 10 chicks or met the love of your life as I'm sure would many others- whatever your definition of success is.

Which is why I ask the question, how long will you stubbornly persist?

dan300 · 05-08-2014, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Sugarspin

Warned in the retirement home for pulling Yads on the new arrivals?

BroadswordWSJ · 05-08-2014, 10:40 PM

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Originally Posted by kowalski

No one else thought it was over analytical. Maybe you can explain how it was over analytical to, well, everyone else who posts here.

It wasn't in response to one line you wrote, you've been here a while and written a lot... yes, I know things about you... anyone who has read all your posts knows things about you. It, like everything I write to you, is taking a holistic view of everything that you have written on the forum.

When you say it is over-analytical it is merely your transparent attempt to shut down a line of conversation that makes you feel uncomfortable because it actually addresses your core issues.

In the past you used to say that others here didn't take action and then we battered you into a corner where you can no longer say that. Now your thing is saying stuff is over analytical and we are going to batter you into a corner again because it isn't over analytical and, therefore, you won't be able to successfully argue that it is and soon you won't be able to say that either. Then you'll probably come up with something else to defend yourself from addressing your core issues, which are plain to all who read your many many posts here. Except that third time we won't need to batter you into a corner again to show that you aren't saying anything of any substance, your track record will speak for itself.

You aren't getting anywhere with your current attitude, general mindset and approach to life. That is blatant from your thread. You are not improving. You are not getting any success. Girls lie to you about having a boyfriend. Very few people will talk to you for longer than a few seconds. There is nothing positive to say except you now say stuff to girls you fancy and before you didn't.

But, you already knew all that because you are you and you have to live with it everyday.

It's gonna be painful to deal with your issues but if you don't you will continue to be the serendipity we all know and want to help, a miserable, angry and lonely individual who is probably a really lovely person.

Peace,

kowalski

THIS.

And

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Originally Posted by kowalski

If you are being something you are not and you don't get the girl, this is a lose and you won't be happy.
If you are being something you are not and you get the girl, this is a lose and you won't be happy.
If you are being yourself and you don't get the girl, this is a win and you will be happy.
If you are being yourself and you do get the girl, this is a win and you will be happy.

THIS.

Sorry I'm about a day behind, but the last quote is all the "PUA material" you'll ever need. That actually single handed blows Style, Mystery, Gambler and the rest of them clean out of the water.

In terms of keyboard warriors, as far as I can see I'm the only one of those on here, is it me your referring to when you say that or just as Kowalski says, its a defence mechanism? Everyone else is getting laid, has a girl friend, or isn't over bothered because they know when neccessary they can get laid and can get a girl friend if required. So to say people on here aren't taking action is in the very, very small minority.

Your obviously extremely intelligent, and you have a lot to say which if chanelled in different ways could make you awesome with the ladies. Serendipity, please re-read everything over the last 2 pages of this thread.

Shahanshah · 07-08-2014, 09:41 PM

I love how Serendipity always stops posting when people start going against his posting.

amit1207 · 07-08-2014, 11:38 PM

What I found bizarre and hard to digest is when Serendipity write some field report, totally ignoring the previous conversation he had here. If he wants to disregard all the advice then what's the point in writing the field report here.