Just a quick update...

I've been hitting it as hard as I can lately. Maybe done about 30 approaches over the last few days. I'm aiming to up the work rate more as we go into June and proper summertime weather / lighter nights.

I had a coaching session this afternoon. My approach and comfort building is getting reasonably good but I'm slipping into the friend zone too often after that. I realise now that's what happened on the date with the Russian girl. I need to introduce more sexual langauge into it.

I was talking to a girl in a bar tonight and tried throwing some sexual stuff into the convo. She then reciprocated and we stayed on the sexual topic for quite a while. She's got a bf but I could sense she was getting horny and so was I.

Friday 6 June

On Thursday I stayed 'in-field' for 8 hours, though stopped for food and toilet breaks. There was three of us for a while. It's quite cool scouring the streets for girls to approach and pushing each other to go for it. I've found this is much better than being solo where you can end up in your head a lot and not taking action.

Considering the amount of time I was out I didn't do that many approaches, maybe 10 in total. I don't want to be running around in a frenzy, which I don't think would be good but on the other hand I don't want to be doing 1 approach per hour which is not enough.

On the busiest streets there's nothing more annoying than noticing a girl turning her head to check you out as she passes you then not pulling the trigger to go after her. I missed a few like that and others where I just wanted to talk to the girl but didn't attempt to approach.

I went out again Friday for 4 hours, hoping to improve on yesterday, most of that time with a wing. Eventually we set a challenge and managed to do 8 approaches each. On one I chased a woman who was walking fast and got close behind as she neared a bus shelter on the Strand packed with commuters going home. I was pleased I didn't pull out of it because there was an audience and did the approach anyway.

A very cute young French girl I approached down at Pall Mall had very poor English so the convo fizzed out quickly. She'd only been in London for 4 days (she held up 4 fingers to explain) and had come to improve her English. I forgot all my basic French but I should have used google translate, she seemed interested in having an interaction.

Me and my wing approached two chicks sitting drinking pimms in the Sun. One was Italian, the other Bulgarian. They both spoke good english. I was impressed how he teased them and spiked up the conversation. I can see that's been missing from my game.

I'm just being too nice.

For next time - pull the trigger and don't be so nice.

Some days you 'pull the trigger' a lot & other days you talk yourself out of so many that you just decide after missing the 20th hot girl that you're gay & will never be any good

Then the next day the first hottie you approach no problems, & the next, & the next

It's funny though. And fun.

Saturday 7 June

Great day yesterday. Went to the gym then went out on the streets hitting on women, then a good transition into night time and hitting on women in bars.

My general aim was to be more dominant, show more intent and not bail until they walked away.

One girl I stopped head-on tried to side-step me and I moved slightly to stop that so she stepped the other way and I blocked that as well (all happened in a second). So she stopped. I told her she was lovely. A grin crept across her face and she said "it's a hidden camera isnt it?", then slipped away.

The other one I remember was a south american looking woman that I chased after. I complimented her and she said "thank you but no". And I said "I haven't asked you anything yet, what's your name?". She told me and we shook hands but I didn't let go until she pulled it away. She walked on a bit then stopped and held her hand out aagain saying she was in a rush. I said so am I, I left my friend standing over there to come after you. I held on again and she pulled it away again.

Talked to loads of women in the bars. I pinned one girl against a wall and told her I was going to kiss her. She didn't move away but I expected her to head turn so I didn't follow through. I always assume girls don't want me to kiss them.

I squeezed through a space where two Texan girls were standing and I felt an arm brush my ass. So I turned to one and said "I think you touched my bottom there but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that it was an accident". There was strong eye contact from her but her friend seemed a bit grumpy so I bailed.

At the end of the night I scrounged a ciggy off two French birds outside. We had a good vibe and from somewhere I remembered some of my French. One of them was gorgeous. She was quiet but I gradually brought her into the interaction.

One day soon I'll actually kiss a girl but in the meantime I'm just enjoying the process and my progress.

Whaaaaaaaaaaaat!

Don't kick yourself too hard, but next time you better do it!

I agree, doesn't sound like she was offering much resistance. But things seem to be moving in the right direction

I am also of the "WHY THE FUCK DID YOU NOT FOLLOW THROUGH" reaction...

Not some day. Do it now son. Take a risk.

Yea, I'm dancing around the ring. Now I need to be throwing a punch.

Monday 9 June

Was out doing street approaches. Approached a blonde waiting at a bus stop and told her she was lovely. To me she was 9/10. She was from Lithiuania but living in London. From her level of investement I don't think she was available/ interested so I bailed. With hindsight I think I bailed too soon.

Two of the moving women I approached and complimented rushed on with a response along the lines of "aaww thanks that's sweet". I don't think being regarded as 'sweet' is what I want and I want them to stop. It seems too similar to "you're a nice guy, cya".

So I'm going to try to switch it up today. I know it's much better when I stop them and get eye contact for a bit before giving the compliment. The more I can drag this part out the better. It also displays confidence that you're not rushing your words out because you expect them to walk away.

Tuesday 10 June

Had a coaching session this afternoon then stayed out with a wing for a couple of hours afterwards.

I didn't keep count but maybe did 20+ approaches, all quite different situations. Phone and earphone interrupts, static, moving, seated, standing, one on a bike! An approach on a girl in a park turned into a 20 minute convo.

I asked three of them out but they all had a bf.

All the moving ones stopped for me and all gave positive responses, so a big improvement on yesterday. I'm putting that down to my energy level being higher from the start. I even did a couple before the coaching to get warmed up.

There were so many attractive girls out I felt like going on longer but got too exhausted.

Worth it as I learned a lot today.