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19-09-2015, 11:49 AM
So I guess yesterday was my first night of game in a club. The thing I hate about them is that they're always cramped and not that many girls, just a shitload of testosterone around. Anyway, I learned some important lessons. I approached many groups of girls and danced around them and I can say that I won/t try that again. They usually take it like you're hitting on them. It was the end of introduction week for UNI so I was with some friends I made and just wanted to have fun. I also didn't give afuck* like my man kowalski so there was no approach anxiety. I arrived pumped cause we had a pre-disco-party that was more fun than the club. Anyway, the thing I realised is that if you come up to groups of girls and don't say anything they practically ignore you and look at each other till you go away or just move to somewhere else. I guess I don't really get clubs and don't really like them either because my game sucks, but I guess you have to come off like you're really not hitting on them to get a positive response. I guess the good side is that if you want to say something to them you have an excuse to get up in their ear and put your hand at the back of their head. I think if you get a positive response from that you can pretty much go from there. I asked one girl in a 2-set if that was the gay room cause it looked pretty weird and she was pretty cool with me getting so close to her face, but another one pulled away when I tried to get that close. I gave a strong look to a girl who was like 20 yrs older than me but still good looking and she was kind of like
 I guess the most important lesson I learned is that you really have to calibrate on the first response you get and try to work from there. I also realised that social proof is soo important in a club where everyone is checking everyone else. The friends are also a pain in the ass. I guess it's really difficult to take a girl home if she's with her friends(which most of them are), but anyway, that was my first proper lesson I guess. Please share your ideas and what your game is in night clubs. I guess this is the most frequent topic ever but I just can't be bothered to read everything on this website. Use the comments section guys, seriously  Good luck on improving your game!    
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20-09-2015, 11:11 PM
Man I love these freshers nights! They actually force you to talk and get to know people. But that's not exactly what we're after are we? What I realised today is that many people don't start a conversation to get laid, just to do small talk. I'm fucking sick of it actually. If you start a conversation with a total stranger it has to be original. You have to set yourself apart from the other boring fuckers who are trying to get ass working undercover. So many conversations are fake and so many people open without any actual purpose.
Another thing I realised is that no one does Kino  ) That is so funny and weird at the same time because I find it quite natural to touch people while talking to them but everyone else is just holding their beer, sometimes even with two hands, it seems so unnatural to me. Anyway, the thing I learned today is: be original in your conversations. Do everything different.(If someone asks what do you do tell them you make the holes in maccaroni or some shit). Be a mystery and a rollercoaster. Also I kind of forced myself do stay in the pub because I was so not in the mood. But I guess once you drink a couple of beers and try to have fun and skip the boring stuff, you actually learn to enjoy yourself. Do share how you keep your conversations interesting and unique, and also what goals do you usually have when you start an interaction. Good luck on improving your game! Danny out.
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And so my journey takes shape... -
07-11-2015, 09:05 PM
It's been a while since I posted anything so it's going to be a bit.
That being said, I want to give a shoutout to PUA Buzz (his name on the forum) for briefing me into the world of game and taking me on a day game session for free  Really awesome guy: if you want some advice or some coaching, he's the guy to see. I also want to thank my new wings, or game mates or whatever you call them for being so cool and letting me in their group. As kowalski said, I need to start taking action and stop realising things, so I did and I still am. I have been doing day and night game every weekend and I now intend to do at least half an hour of game every day on my way to UNI after watching this incredible video from the 'Jesus' of Day game. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FPbxzKF5Fgs There have been a few approaches where I have been pretty confident but the freedom from outcome comes from not giving a damn about what people think about you, so I have been staring in restaurants with my mouth open like a retard and picking my nose while talking to random people and I feel freer as a result. I have still yet to crush my ego so challenges are welcomed if any cross your mind. I could have got the number of one girl last time I did night game and one other from day game but I just didn't bother. I need to stop being so picky or I'm going to die a virgin  I have also seen quite a bit of hate going on between famous PUA's like Sasha hating on Style for his inauthenticity and way of tricking girls and also from Gambler to Julien from RSD (although this guy's methods are pretty unethical. I heard he's going to be banned from entering the UK) and that made me think more about why I am doing this and if it is a good thing or a bad thing to do. Most guys' mentality is this: 'I want to lay the most beautiful women on the planet so I can feel better about myself and I'm going to do game until II have perfected my pick-up skill and I can get any girl in bed within the hour' While we all want this to some extent I realised it is not just about getting laid, but more importantly about personal development (becoming able to know what you want and work for it despite any difficulties, learning to accept yourself as a human being, becoming the best you can be not just by dating beautiful women but by always facing your fears and taking life by the horns) or inner game as one would call it. I do feel I am entitled to have beautiful women in my life because I have always treated them nicely and I do not see anything wrong in having an intimate moment with someone you have established a deep connection with. Therefore, I will continue my journey keeping in mind the PUA motto 'leave her better than you found her' which I think is a great thing to live by. I also want to be clear about my intentions from the start so I opt for more direct game because I think indirect is pretty much a waste of good time and I will also keep in mind what kowalski keeps telling me, that honesty is the most important thing in an interaction. You can trick a girl into sleeping with you just so you can tell your friends you scored this hot blonde last night but that is not what it should be like. Obviously, if she just wants to have some fun and you do too, there's nothing wrong with that either. I also don't see the point in rating women based on their physical appearance. To me a girl is either pretty or ugly. Or should I say a yes, a maybe or a no. I want to my yes girls so I see no point in gaming girls you are not attracted to just to trick you in being proud of yourself. That's about all I have for you today. Please leave your comments below. I would love to hear someone else's opinion. I could be wrong at any moment so do correct me if you think my mentality is not good or if you want to add something to my report. Peace out and good luck. Hope all of you reach your goals. 
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07-11-2015, 11:44 PM
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Having the right frame of mind for you is key and that depends on what you want from change. I think it's important to realise that these improvements are multiple changes to yourself and to a lot of people; your friends and family included, change can be hard to understand. Your motto is interesting. I don't know how religiously you live by it. If you think about and try to push your conversations towards that direction then maybe the motto is limiting you. The motto suggests that you are to make a positive impact on every girl you talk to. This, I would suggest, is a monumental task. If I was you, I'd lower the bar on the motto and simply just go out to have fun. However, it might work perfectly for you. Depends on your mindset.
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08-11-2015, 12:51 PM
'leave her better than you found her'. I wouldn't live by that, It's a nice idea but in reality it's limiting. Ultimately you have to do what you want to do and if it upsets a few people, well so be it.
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08-11-2015, 06:43 PM
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There is no problem being picky. Just have fun and keep improving. Losing your virginity is not a big thing and will happen in time since you are taking all the right steps. Im not in the game to get laid, yes that will come in time (hopefully) but I agree that its about creating a better version of yourself. Was reading the game earlier 'The point of game is not to get good at sarging. When you sarge every night is a new one. You're not building anything but a skillset'. Good luck in your quest. See you in a few weeks -mat-
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