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Or being unemployed your entire life and saying you're career is sorted because you signed on and have no ambition to get a job. I'm the first say Broadsword is a normal person which puts him in the good 1% of PUA. If you have a deficiency you have to compensate or at least address it. You need a rough plan or mindset: I will go out every weekend and approach 12 girls and at least ask them for their number. I will also go out during the week unless I'm on a date or doing a proactive hobby. I will meet up with people off forums and/or hang out with 'cooler' people I know who chat to girls. I will join dating sites and message X amount of girls My feeling is that a plan like that would help him for the first month just to pop your cherry of it all before going into a more normal yet consistent approach. If you really feel like dating isn't a big deal at all in your position maybe you're asexual. |
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You're in the top 1% of people who leave messages in the comment section of porn videos.
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If Broadsword followed your advise we'd have another little Serendipity running around. Funny that Serendipity pretty much agreed with many of your comments on Broadswords thread, I wonder what does that say? |
1) If you paid any attention you would see it is clear he avoids or at least doesn't do much in the way of girls. Speed dating doesn't count and neither does 'talking to girls'.
2) It is a dating forum though and it is the main reason you would start a journal in the field report section. Yes I dont like weird PUA stuff but dating and sex is a normal important thing. 3). . .uhhh. . . cool buy him a wheelchair on me. You took an analogy (and the jokey end part) and took it literally whilst implying that Broadsword is here to be a fan boy. 4) Being 31 and a virgin, and after a year of being on the forum, and still he really hasn't done much. I'm not going to organise a bibliography of his posts but its clear there's a lack of action which is okay as that's easy enough when you're not a retard. But this forum has too much 'cheerleading' and confusing 'anti-pua' with anti-dating. 5 and 6) Yeah everybody, and I mean everybody, went through the phase of going out a lot and even trying out PUA behaviours, lines etc. Whilst we can argue about trying out PUA stuff, everybody needs to do the 'going out loads' phase. I remember your coming-back post and it was very clear you did a lot of going out and approaching, and that you find it a big deal. And note I said "In your position" anyway. If Broadsword followed my advice which was essentially "Go and chat up girls" but sometimes setting yourself a little bit of structure when your starting off with something or nervous can help. I always find it funny when people on here advocate the whole "Do nothing" approach. |
Can I refer back to my guide to game post now...xD
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I think I've spoken about this kinda subject with my mates before and I don't think anybody has ever said anything less than "You'd get that shit sorted right away!" not "Oh well if you've said hi to a girl you've tried your best", that's what a girl would say.
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If he get's laid and meets a cool girl then good on him, if it takes another year so what. He's found the key to success with women, he does what he wants, takes life by his own pace and evolves where he can. |
That was a bunch of feel good rhetoric but I'm sure it'll go down great.
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