Yeah I agree. As & when I go about my life; I'm not going to hit the streets or go out purely to go & meet women. It's not a priority, and looking back it probably never has been.

As I said I've barely been at home for a full week in the last couple of months so theres not really been much opportunity. Bar a few short offshore trips between now & the end of the year, I've got a handful of nights out coming up so plenty of opportunities should be there.

I think this is something you should make your priority, a daily progressive thing. If you spent like 6 months cracking on at it you would benefit greatly. It seems you don't really care much at all about it which would make it an odd thing to be on here.

I can't see it ever being a priority, or at least not whilst there are other things in life which I value at a higher priority. You are right in that its not something I'm overly bothered about, but I only jump on here for like 5 minutes a day as its not exactly an excessively busy forum.

I don't really know what more i could be doing other than to take opportunities as and when they come, I could perhaps look at getting more into personal self/life improvement that isn't women orientated, this admittedly is something I've been lacking in the last few months.

It should be your priority, unless I am mistaken aren't you around 30 and a virgin? Chasing tail should be your de facto priority. You should be like an monomaniac, a shark in a pool of blood.

Broadsword how would you say you feel about yourself now compared with the day the first joined this forum?

You know I'd have more respect for a creepy 'PUA' type guy who was a virgin and was trying to get girls than guys like you who think they're too good to chase girls.

You know a woman isn't just going to turn up one day and point at her vagina and tell you to fuck her?

Wake up.

I reckon someone needs to take a little trip to Amsterdam. Get a feeling for a capacious yet homely lady of the night.

You're missing the point markuk.

I get the impression that Broadsword has realised that pussy just isn't the priority for him he once thought it was.

I've seen an evolution in his posts. He's gone from a whiny bitch first post where he thought his all his problems were other peoples fault to a guy who feels much happier about his place in the world. With or without a throng of chicks all vying for his cock or not!

I asked him how he feels about himself since joining this forum to the present day. He hasn't responded yet but if he does and he say's he feels much better about himself, then the forum has done it's job and helped a guy gain a better understanding of his dating issues, and subsequently felt happier as a result.... which is why we all come somewhere like here in the first place.

Weird that you get the vibe he feels to good to chase girls? Give the guy a break, he seems happy doing his thing.

I firmly believe that you should be laid.

I don't see everything but you post some good shit on here & I do think you are a good guy.

I also want to say....everything that phenom said.

I'll admit to not following every post, I'll re-read some later maybe my comments were a little reactive