Update.

Everything went to shit with all the women, feeling a bit crappy, probably due to alcohol / lack of sleep from last night (no sex obviously).


Will go out tonight with a mate and just chill.

Balls, thats really crap to hear.

What happened?

Okay so here is a more descriptive update.

Russian girl - Julia, did not text me back. This was probably not helped by me sending her messages the following day (needy).

The date with the tinder girl didn't go well. She was South Korean, 25 and pretty hot.
When I met her she seemed totally dis-interested. We went for drinks after the first beer I tried to call her out on it.
I said 'Look if you're really tired we can leave' and she was like 'No, it's alright, we can have another beer'

She wouldn't let me get anywhere near her either, haha, Never mind.


An update on last night:

I decided I wasn't going to drink as I wanted a good night sleep, to wake up and go for a run 9am saturday morning (mission achieved).
Myself and my mate went to a little bar and ended up chatting to some Spanish chics. There was a blonde who was quite cute
and a brunette who had nice boobs and eyes. I was very relaxed and hadn't said anything to the brunette but had some eye
contact which made me feel a bit horny. My mate and the brunette were talking about the Spanish bull run, something about an English guy getting hurt.
I said 'That's how the Spanish keep the English out' She burst out laughing, I really wanted to fuck her looking back now.
They left to get some fresh air and I didn't pursue.

I was standing in some doorway with my mate and we're always cracking stupid jokes to each other. I said, 'This is a good place to pounce on people'
At that moment a hot Indian woman walked passed and burst out laughing and kept giggling and she walked away for a good 10 / 20 metres looking back at me.
I should have ran after her - what WAS I thinking. Invitation to pouce if, ever there was.

Later We're standing in the street and there's a good of 2 guys 1 girl. I clock eyes on the girl and she's like 'Hello', I'm like 'Hello'.
We start talking, one of her male friends looks suspicious of me, so I'm like 'hello mate', he's like 'hello'

Chat for quite a bit and I'm pretty sure the girl was interested in me. I found out they were just mates and out for drinks. they kept asking where we were going.
At one point she said are you gay. I really wish i had looked her in the eyes and said 'no I like pussy'. That's what I wanted to say.

They left. I walked up to a hot asian girl and told her she was hot and got chatting. She was lovely but had a bf.

Some general observations.
Night game / day game. Stupid terms, there really is no difference people are people.


Recently I have been going out a lot after work with the sole intention of interacting with women.
This is a little contrived and I'm sure women will pick up on that sometimes, however I'm NOT doing it for the women. I'm doing it for myself.
I'm doing it because I want to be able to speak to women whenever I want so I need to force the issue for a little bit.

This IS helping. Last night was not a contrived environment and the interactions I had with people were all fantastic.
I also need to focus on what I WANT. The brunette with nice boobs / the girl in the street, I should have been more direct with them.

Okay - so much for not being analytical, however my thread my rulez.

Where's the escalation?

on the escalator... (I'm so funny)

Okay well with the Korean girl I sat next to her and was trying to initiate, by touching her arm and shit but she just wasn't interested.

The other girls - I'm not really sure what I should have done as regards to escalation.

I'm not really a touchy feely person, which obviously doesn't help.

Know any rapists I can do a boot camp with?

You're passed the point where socialising counts are a 'good night' - for your journal that is - which is a good thing as that's miles ahead of a lot of people.

Escalation is a hard thing to define or describe in anything that will actually pull: its whatever you do that leads the situation closer to the pull. A few that never fail are isolation, eye contact and proximity. Even then I pulled a girl I barely even touched or got close to until we were back at mine.

I guess its isolating and leading to somewhere to fuck that count as the escalation I'm talking about. You don't need to be making out, groping and all that, you just need to switch it from 'two people who just met and talking' to 'two people who met and are together now'.

Yes, that makes a lot of sense. I'm meeting more women now than I ever have so I'm less afraid to experiment and try things, which are new for me.

yea so I meet a girl in the street and take her to a bar. meet some italian guys and one of them takes her home in from of me. Feel terrible :( fuck this

If they'd only put in as much effort against Costa Rica!

Ok well I guess someone has to say it.........yeah man, what an enormously painful kick in the cajonés that must have been. That shit must have sucked big time.

Now that that\'s been acknowledged..

I see 2 options here:

Find the Italian & kick his head in in a big demented rage

Or..

Forget about it, dust yourself off, recuperate & work on not allowing that shit to happen again