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New people and new experiences
 

Just been reflecting on my experiences since doing all this day game malarkey. In particular I think of some of the cool girls I've met the past few months, some of which I have become good friends with also. I have girls in China and South Korea who are going to show me round their cities when I finally get my arse over there. I also went on a trip to Taiwan as a result of meeting my last girlfriend doing day game, one of the best trips I've ever been on.

Some of the cool people I've met, and experiences I've had, would not have come about if I hadn't got myself out there meeting new people in the streets. I'd recommend it to anyone.

Is this you about to break the news telling us you've accepted a job with daygame.com lol

Man this is awesome, its just amazing what you can/you have achieved through Day Game!

I've got to the stage where I'm just talking to people better but not actually hot woman, seems like I back out of approaching them and if they open me I don't really let the self come through, as preached by Tyler. I think the best way to describe it is I switch to chode auto-pilot. I'm still battling through AA even after the interview realisation.

See guys! creeping out girls in supermarkets does pay!

I had a two week break and resisted approaching any girls, and cleared my head of all the noise. Upon stepping out the door to game once more, I had no expectations and no agenda, except... to meet and talk to girls and people in general. I had no intention to get a number or 'try' for a date. I had realised how outcome dependent I had been, well, all my life.

As a result, I had some fucking awesome interactions last weekend, and now some dates for the weekend (which is nice). I need to just allow things to happen, rather than pushing 'the close' all the damn time.

freedom from outcome & ego
 

This realisation that I was being far too dependent on results has ended up being a huge turning point in my game. Everything feels more real now. Having written down thoughts relating to this I have seen how much this affected what I was doing, and who I am. A couple of examples:

Kino. I was touching girls in order to attain a result. Logically this might make sense, you escalate towards the goal of a lay. However I was doing it more out of fear of being friend-zoned. Now, I am conscious that I will do it because it feels good to do so. Self amusement if you will.

Getting the lay. I was pushing and pushing to get logistics just right before, girls could feel this and resisted. Now, I have stopped forcing things, all a sudden I got laid twice over the wkd. The key, I thought to myself, 'if I get laid cool, if not it'll happen sooner or later. This is a tricky mindset if you are desperate to get laid in the first place though.

There are other areas that are affected, and a lot of it is related to ego and fear of rejection. Now I am beginning to identify with this, I can start to really act through my own intentions and not allow the ego to fuck me up.

Trying to kiss girls 3-4 times when you have literally only met was a bit forward haha. Especially since I remember you saying to me something similar that putting my arm around a girl's neck when we've just met was forward. But this is something you've already reviewed about your interactions anyways, I'm just saying.

I've neglected my daygame, gunna go out tomorrow in fucking beast mode.

It's all about calibrating to each scenario. I was attempting to kiss them for the sake of it and rushing things. Now I am more patient and allow things to happen, as opposed to forcing it. It's never really too soon to do anything, it all depends.

Hit the streets for the Sat Sarge, nice sunny sat afternoon. Was a pretty rough day with none of girls really stopping to chat to me. I ended up at Picc train station, and saw a cute well dressed girl in the concourse. I went over and started chatting out how cool I thought her style was. I took her hand and we carried on chatting. After a while I took her other hand and the sexual tension started to build. After 5-10 mins of fun chat she needed to get her train, so I grabbed her number telling her to come back to Manchester (as she lives in Leeds). I hugged her and then stood there with her my arms looking into each others eyes, we then made out. She then needed to dash for the train so hand in hand I dashed her to the train. She just made it. It was all like a film.