Thursday 22nd Oct 2009
Not much happened in the way of a field report so more of an update of my progress of changing today!
Tonights plans were supposed to be a Booster Hypnosis/NLP session at 7:30 and then straight to PD2G's to spend the evening with her! I had a great feeling that i was going to get blown out again though.
I did as per the post here says
(this will be linked once i work out how to)
Anyway.. 7:30 hit and it was time for my booster session. I had, had 5 sessions over a year ago to help me with my confidence as had hit a low patch when my ex first split with me and found that it really helped.
I booked this before i went on holiday as was hoping to get an appointment before i went to help me with any AA nerves i had whilst out there, unfortunately he didn't have any free spaces then so i thought that i'd book one for after anyway for the hell of it. As Tesco's keeps reminding us....Every little helps.
I sat in the chair and discussed why i wanted a top up, etc (mainly to help with confidence and AA) and he then he started his process of putting me under and talking to my sub-conscious! An hour later, it's finished.
Now last year, everytime i left one of these sessions, i felt so pumped...like i was on a massive drug. I felt so happy and alive and wanting to go out and could do anything.
This time however, i felt normal. Just like i had before i went in. I don't believe that this was anything to do with the session not working. I feel like..well, i don't need it. I feel like i'm in a place where i can see happyness in everything and feel at a really good level of confidence.
I get back to my flat pondering and feeling weird about what just happened! Have a really great dump and text C19! I've recently found out the actual distance she lives from me and it's not good but it's one of her mates that I met on holidays birthday next week and C19 wants me to come over for it and stay in a hotel with her!
(I am under no illusions that this is going to go anywhere i'm not that naive! so am happy to travel a few times to see her and get a few good experiences in these new cities and get some more friends)
A couple of more texts and then start some ironing! 10 seconds in and she rings!
Fuck...I throw my phone on the bed and ignore it!
What am i doing?!?!?! Why didn't i answer?? I haven't done a phone game yet and i just immediately panicked! what a cock, i've just been telling myself how much confidence i have and then i do something stupid like that and prove that i haven't!
Right quick text her, say you're in Sainsbury's and you'll call in 20...i do!
I then go to sainsburys to get a case in, i need beer!!
I get back open a tinny and look at my phone! I'm not nervous or scared, why? I was earlier! I feel calm. Then the voice hits me.
"Why are you going to ring her? What if you can't think of anything to say? What if she finds you boring and goes off you? etc."
I start laughing.."Shut up head!"
I have just realised that I am confident and was all along. This is also not a self-conscious issue. This is purely my concious trying to protect myself out of habit, as it has done for so many years!
But now i've seen it properly i feel like it's gone or i can control it now.
I look at my phone again.....Nothing....no bad thoughts! then something pops in my head!
"I'm the coolest muthafucker in the world!"
I dial!
25 minutes later i finish the call.
I feel like a god again!
A minute later i get a dirty picture message, shes so fit! I rule!
Thanks
James