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Originally Posted by Shahanshah
You have to go out regularly with wings. Go find some wings now, on any forum, mass message. Make it happen. Going out regularly (3-4 nights a week) WITH wings is mandatory. Its the one true path to learning this, no one else did it any differently. You're the same as everyone else.
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I've done a google search and looked round plenty of other British
PUA forums, there doesn't seem to be any kind of
PUA scene in Aberdeen at all. Whilst I get going out regularly is needed for this, Fri & Sat would be my only managable nights - 3/4 days a week just isn't possible given I'm up before 6am every morning.
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Originally Posted by Shahanshah
Okay do you drink? Do you like bars as opposed to clubs?
What do you want out of all this? E.g. a girlfriend asap, a bit of a dating/sex life then a girlfriend, to be a player for a few solid years, to be a pua.
How much are you willing to put into this and how much do you want it? |
Yeah I do drink socially although I'm not a huge fan of getting wankered, I can quite easily enjoy myself in bars or even casinos as opposed to clubs although as I said before nights out generally come around every 6-8 weeks. I don't really know how to answer "how much am I willing to put into this"? The answer is I'm not hell bent on it as the most important thing in my life but is obviously something I'd like to improve on, it probably would sit at around 3 in a list of things in my life that are important to me.
What would i want out of this? Some casual dating and sex would be nice with an eventual goal of a long term girlfriend, but given what you've just said & my response I'm realistic enough to see there's a chance that will never happpen. If logic dictates I have to be out, out, out talking to women all the time, that's something i don't have time for, it would more be an as and when thing.
If devoting all my time and effort to this really is whats required, the way my life is that isn't possible so maybe things won't change, who knows. All i know is that in general when i am out or do try something, I feel a lot better and have more fun with it certainly a lot more than I did as far back as 12 months ago.