I know their is a lot of hate for these within this forum, but I think if mastered properly they can be used as efficient top up to the rest of your game when your chilling at home. So I have been fooling around a bit, testing things out and would like to share a few things I've discovered.

I won't go into details about making a good profile, but filling it properly and showing what's unique about you is the main thing.

Your first message - do not put "hey" as the title, any hot girl will get around 20 "hey" messages a day, I usually use "Do Not Read" or something completely random like "why did you break my washing machine?".

This is an example of a message I sent out to a hot rock girl (I am not a rocker).

"Comparing our profiles we have almost nothing in common, but for some reason I'm curiously attracted to you. You have a charmingly untainted sense of who you are and what you like. I like that, it's much better than the hordes of "I like shopping, hanging out with my girlie's and R'n'B" types I usually come across.

For some reason I can imagine us drunkenly adventuring around skuzzy bars, smoking, swearing and flirting whilst you explain your love of gardening, I introduce you to economic theory and together we naively plan a decade of vagabonding around the world."

Firstly I state intent straight away. We actually probably have lots in common but it's unnecessary for me to discuss it or try and bend my reality to match hers. What I actually like about her, is her authenticity, which is more of a compliment than saying I like the same music or films, like so many people try to do. I then DHV by saying I have hordes of girls after me that are not authentic but I prefer you, which reinforces the first statement.

The second part is a future date prediction, this is very powerful because when she thinks about going on a date with me her imagination will default to this, which is much better than the "will I be bored?" "will it be awkward" thoughts she normally has. It also means if we do go out, it won't be a shoddy dinner date, I can venue change lots and we can get drunk together which ultimately will increase the chance of an f close that night.

Still a lot more to discover in this area, but if you live in a city this can an efficient little source of FB's if you play it right. Will try an add more to this in the future.

Like this.

Am trying this out as well and my tinternet game obviously blows as I have sent out 25 meails and got no replies

I have however got winked at by a 46 peruvian with two kids.

Will take these hints on board, (by which I mean, largely copy)


scampo

It certainly is a numbers game.

How about we create a community dating add and see what we can do with our collective minds?

Online dating is great if you travel much or are moving to another place.
You can just send emails to girls in the area where you're going to be, so you'll already have girls to go out (and also do other stuff... wink, wink) even before you actually get there.
Another plus is that if you have a system you can just spend 10 minutes a day answering emails.
The negative is that it may be harder to see them in person.

You are very right about FB being hated on here, I’m really surprised this post has been up for two days and none of the more usual posters have ripped the piss out it, maybe there out sarging.

I’m pretty much an expert on FB (read some of my posts), I’m just completed a massive experiment so big in fact I had to set up a completely new profile in case I got suspended. Basically it was a test of good fb openers, I sent 219 friend requests with different openers to 8, 9.10’s I’d bookmarked over a period of a few weeks.

The results were quite interesting to say the least.

In short there is no magic bullet, employing the same tactics you use in the field are just as likely to work on FB. A lot of what you say is accurate, you are kinda on the right lines. Probably a little tweaking here and there.

I conclude by saying that the best responses on FB are the most ballsy, you really have to the run the risk of her deleting you, but so what, you’ve lost nothing. I’m not talking about being offensive or rude that is bang out of order just ballsy, and cocky, ‘who are you and that’s special because...’ type thing.

I’ve been slagged off mercilessly for even daring to mention fb on here, but don’t let it take over your field game. FB is an additional tool to use, not a replacement, obviously once you’ve got her number you still have to game her. I use facebook Sunday morning and 15 minutes after dinner each day and that’s it. I use templates which I tailor to suit which cuts down on work, the rest of the time I’m out in the field.

Respect

Dude.... That was great....
I just used something similar on a girl that was semi-interested... great results!! Looks like I'm going up to Manchester

Bankie highlighting yet another problem encountered with dating sites. Inconvenience through long distance.

Yea, and lying to yourself thinking you're actually gonna make the effort to go that distance... Oh well, gotta go up to North Wales soon anyway, might as well make a pit stop

Fuck what are doing all these miles for listen to the Nova.

I wouldn't even travel 10 miles if a HB10 offered her ass to me.

If you're closing internet dates stick to hitting local groups that way you can be sure everyones is easy distance. For example if there is a local club night on fb, i'll hit all the HB its a given they will be local only 1 or 2 % are going to travel far for a club night.