Online Dating Sites -
17-02-2011, 05:42 PM
I know their is a lot of hate for these within this forum, but I think if mastered properly they can be used as efficient top up to the rest of your game when your chilling at home. So I have been fooling around a bit, testing things out and would like to share a few things I've discovered.
I won't go into details about making a good profile, but filling it properly and showing what's unique about you is the main thing.
Your first message - do not put "hey" as the title, any hot girl will get around 20 "hey" messages a day, I usually use "Do Not Read" or something completely random like "why did you break my washing machine?".
This is an example of a message I sent out to a hot rock girl (I am not a rocker).
"Comparing our profiles we have almost nothing in common, but for some reason I'm curiously attracted to you. You have a charmingly untainted sense of who you are and what you like. I like that, it's much better than the hordes of "I like shopping, hanging out with my girlie's and R'n'B" types I usually come across.
For some reason I can imagine us drunkenly adventuring around skuzzy bars, smoking, swearing and flirting whilst you explain your love of gardening, I introduce you to economic theory and together we naively plan a decade of vagabonding around the world."
Firstly I state intent straight away. We actually probably have lots in common but it's unnecessary for me to discuss it or try and bend my reality to match hers. What I actually like about her, is her authenticity, which is more of a compliment than saying I like the same music or films, like so many people try to do. I then DHV by saying I have hordes of girls after me that are not authentic but I prefer you, which reinforces the first statement.
The second part is a future date prediction, this is very powerful because when she thinks about going on a date with me her imagination will default to this, which is much better than the "will I be bored?" "will it be awkward" thoughts she normally has. It also means if we do go out, it won't be a shoddy dinner date, I can venue change lots and we can get drunk together which ultimately will increase the chance of an f close that night.
Still a lot more to discover in this area, but if you live in a city this can an efficient little source of FB's if you play it right. Will try an add more to this in the future.
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