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shops man shops! saterday night supermarket? pushing a trolley full of shaving cream and groceries=married with kids,carrying a basket with wine and chocolate=approach if she seems she wants u to you gotta learn body language. but shops are my fav im also pushing 40 if i find myself in a cloths shop i will ofton perv in a friendly way at woman who are buying underwear just be obiouse and if there smiling say hi and make a comment but most important thing is your smiling and being friendly and funny like i was once passing by a lady who was quickly holding up 2 night dress in front of the mirror as i past i grunted in her ear "the brown one" as she blushed i wispered in her other ear"it matches you complectoin" and walked off she walked away trying her best not to laugh

Definitely not creepy to date younger women. The age gap is great. Women in their late 20's love mature guys. And it's not only because the sex is great, it is also because guys your age are intelligent and have life experience.

Also, don't forget that women and men age differently! Plus, most people feel younger or older than they really are :)


Good luck man!

There are plenty of single women over 40 by the way who are still quite good looking. It can be hard if you are a man over 40 trying to get women who are under 30. I have done daygame though on a wide range of women of different ages. From mid 20 right up to late 40s. Some of the younger women did not seem that bothered about my age. But I was not able to get any day 2s with them.

I don't know what it's going to be like dating in my 40s, but dating in my 30s is, single moms.

Apparently, that's my type. I don't actively seek them out or anything. It just so happens that all the ladies I get with, are single moms.

I accept this, and I quite enjoy it. I'm not really the type for settling down and all that bollocks. I look at "families" and it confirms to me that I'm far happier with my life the way it is. The freedom is amazing. The last time I dated a girl with no kids was just over 3 years ago. Although, I believe she now has a kid.

I imagine the dynamic might change a bit when I'm in my 40s. I'm very much looking forward to younger-lady-older-man relationships.

When I used to use internet dating site many years ago most of the women I ended up meeting were single mothers. I suppose that was because single mothers found it harder to get new men than women without children did. So many opted for low value guys like me.

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But thats the thing i cant seem to stop it, but i have been told it shouldnt really be causing me pain so i was just wondering if anyone else did it or knew..idk

You are narrowing down your choice by looking online only. Online, even for 20/30 year old guys, is difficult so for you, it is going to be more difficult. It is possible for you to find younger girls, however are you in a position where they will be attracted to you. Do you have status? Do you have money? Are you in shape? Do you dress well? Have you experienced some cool things in life? All these things are going to benefit you when talking and interacting with a younger girl. Also, you dont have to go out at night to meet these girls. These girls also need to go to the supermarket, libary, shopping etc. You can see these girls everywhere. Talking to them will give you a good indicator if they are interested or not.

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older women are more pracical, and seam to be more easy going, less primpy and ALOT more experienced.

On the other hand the nicething about college cheerleeders are the older you get they still stay the sam e age. <-what movie was that from?

Also, the definition of older has changed a lot over the years.

Older for men now means someone over the age of 55, as I know guys in their early 50's who look in their mid-30's, as they take care of themselves and have access to better health/skin care. Remember, the gym culture only really blew up heavily in the last 20 years or so, and esp after Youtube/ Insta etc.

So this now means a woman in her mid-20's will be happy to even date a guy over 50 if he has all his shit together. But for guys, we still value fertility in a woman, so will typically date down in age.

Women and Men are different remember. Men value youth, Women value security.