Originally Posted by stephenedward
In my opinion, you need to go to bars. Girls go to bars to get laid. As long as you play it cool, smooth and mature, girls are going to dig it. Make sure you are dressed very well, groomed etc. Girls find mature guys attractive. Especially girls in their 20s since their experience is usually with boys their own age who are immature. Use your age to your advantage. I´m 28 and I get with early 20´s all the time. Obviously my age difference is less than yours BUT the same principles apply. When they tease me and say "Omg you are so old" .. (I know this is a shit test and they are trying to see if I´m confident in myself) , I just turn around lean in slightly and say "Well then you can call me daddy" with a cheeky smirk with complete eye contact. I ONLY do this when the conversation has started off well. It works like a charm.
It may take time but I will start to go to bars. Hard to do when my friends don't go out anymore.
I also wonder what are the best places/resorts/travel and backpacker destinations where it's easier to pull girls, the whole Girls Go Wild in Ibiza thing or something less full on?
I do wonder if I should even lie about my age. It's hard to do. I can't do it if it's for something more serious and with girls with depth and intelligence who I really like.
But for something more casual, I could get away with being 10 years younger in appearance and behaviour. I'm more comfortable doing that.
I just don't know if it's 'right' doing that.
Playing up to my age, that is something I could do if a girl knows my age it's true. Working anything with confidence is just a Win Win isn't it?
I just like to let them know I'm still a youthful at heart fit dude at the same time though.