Destroy yourself and you cannot loose.

To get intouch with what may harm your state when being tested by a woman testing your masculine polarity or a bloke trying to chode you out is so frigging powerful,
to react totally indifferent to how the tester expects you to will either leave him standing there like a punch drunk boxer or leave her in fits of laughter,

think of the names you hate being called (if there is none then you are doing ok, go you!)
they could be anything you feel insecure about or anything you despise, putting aside the saying 'we despise most in others what we fear most in our self's

if any off these comments was said to you, would it effect your state forcing you to react and hand over your power unconsciously to the tester?

i think your a little homo!

with hands that small you must have a small cock!

omg how big is your head? <that was one of my insecuritys

hey dude how did someone like you manage to pull a girl like this?

are YOU really trying to pull ME?

hey son! <dunno why that made it in the list but it used to bug me when said by someone younger than me.

all off this little statements or questions are said with the tester automatically assuming power and authority over you, putting you into a postion off lower status

He already knows how you are going to react and you will hand over your masculine badge of honor to him getting down on your knees screaming Were not worthy! Were not worthy!

Her doing the testing, she will now feel like the dominant one in the interaction and will lose attraction for you instantly.

so how do you pass this little challenge off holding on to your power? well don't give them the answer they expect, its been said that you should just ignore them and pretend you cant hear but if your chatting a bird up at the bar and some chode is trying to take your power away, to pretend you cant hear him can come across that you are a pussy and don't want any trouble,

are you gay?

in his head you will respond with

No fucking way dude! thus giving him ammo to keep playing with you

so what about saying...

Dam right I'm gay infact i might just take you outside and rape your skinny ass!

what this say to him is 'nothing will fuck with this lads state and your only going to make a fool out of your self if you keep trying' and to the bird your chatting up it shows you will not waver under social pressure and that you are happy taking the piss out of your self and set in your reality.

Are YOU! really trying to pull ME!

in her head you'll reply with

"no no err i just thought you looked like a nice person to talk to"

which you will both know is a lie and she will take your balls and ram them up your own ass (if she even bothers to stay.

so maybe say

"fucking dam right i am but your not making it easy"


if you get called out on something, exploit it, if you destroy your image with out losing your integrity and values then there is nothing left to test you on.


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Good pointers. This is a good attitude to adopt.

jynx sounds like the kind of dude i could buzz off

come on man, i need a jynx fix i'll give him back i promise

There's enough to go around

i got picked up and carried out of a set last night by a huge orbiting friend of the girls, i came back in and rubbed his gut and said

"Fuck girls i thought he was going to eat me! i had to stop him when he was putting ketchup on me and dribbling on my forehead, feed him next time hey?"

the poor bloke was definitly not in touch with his insecurities and spent the whole night in his head thinking the girls laughing at my joke was actualy laughing at him.

serve the fucker right, carry me out of a set