Hi guys,
i need your help/advice quite urgently.
By the way im german, so my message might have some spelling and grammar mistakes.

I dont really know that to text a certain girl.

A couple of weeks ago I met this girl in a club. I was doing DHV etc. and she was attracted to me. So as i left i went for the number-close and got it, although we were talking just for a few minutes. I left saying that i will text her just once, cause i dont wanna play games etc.. I know that this was too early to get a pretty save number/date, but i preffered to go back to my friends.

Couple of days later I texted her saying: "Hi, u wanna grab some drinks on wednesday." Not very creative

No respond

Yesterday i met her again in the same club. I actually tried to avoid talking to her as she came up to me. I asked about the flaking and she said something like "lost my phone and thought that you told me about texting me 3-times" ....I knew that this is bullshit and i told her....we kept talking and than we made out....
As we split up, we joked about sending her 3 texts this time. i said to text her once...and we agreed on 2 texts. that was more of a funny conversation.

Now as i read my own message, my game sounds really wack and usually im not so bad in the whole pick-up thing. But the girl is really cute and weird in a good way and i would love to date her for real not just for my stats or ego.

So the question is:
Shall i text her once or twice and what shall i text her????????
I really have no ideas what to text her.

Thanks for your help

heres what i would do.

text her today saying "hey, was fun seeing u again. i'll txt you in a couple days when when im free and we'll hang out! enjoy the rest of ur weekend"


prepares her for the next text, so hopefully shes less likely to flake, and also says that your a busy in demand person, so you're the one saying when you're free and its conviencent for you.

then leave it a few days and text with "hey, im free tonight or thursday eve. i'm in the mood for xxxxxxx. sound good?! lets say.... 8pm?"

give her choice, but all outcomes in your favour.

obvioulsy replace xxxxxx with what your in the mood for and reakon you'd be able to handle.. coffee / drinks / random outing / drive / etc...

i tend to tell them what we're doing, as opposed to ask if she wants to. but each to their own, it depends what fits your personality.

and do it that way and she has her 2 texts too

Use the search utility. There's at least one thread on text messages.