Looked at the title of this thread...."being not doing". This is the ideal, you have to learn first before you can "be", taking it up to "unconcious competence". Basic learning theory, stimulus-response conditioning/learning. Don't worry about doing before being...its natural, don't get hung up about it. You're doing well. You will get to "being not doing" soon enough. Tyler says in the blueprint, that the qualities he cites are "signposts". It won't happen to you over night, but takes work and practice. Any one who says this doesn't take work and practice, just get a basic psychology book out the library and read the chapters on learning theory.

Excellent concise example of cat string theory.
Its so easy to go, yet makes a huge difference.