What you seem to think I said is a load of shit. What I actually said isn't. Try again.

OK I only addressed the first point, money. The second point, that no woman will "actually get in the trenches with you and help make it happen" is extremely generalized.

If you're in a healthy relationship they will, and if they don't, they should fuck off. If you're just seeing a girl they're not going to are they, why would they? Would you help them in that way?

You can't just paint the entire opposite sex with the same brush.

Make up your mind. Are you talking about 'coming across' as 'someone with substance' or actually being one?

Are you talking about paying hollow lip service to your 'goals' and 'passions' and 'ambitions' or are you talking about actually going after them (and all the blood, sweat, hard graft and 'unsexy' sacrifices that go with it)?

Because that's the difference I'm getting at.

Find yourself, become who you want to be. If you know who you want to be, then simply act like it. I'll get ribbed for saying that, but to grow you have to push yourself out of the comfort zone. Sometimes this means you need to emulate the person you want to be, before you can become them.

I don't see chasing and succeeding at my goals and passions as 'blood, sweat and hard graft' because I cannot stand still. I want to progress and enjoy life to my maximum potential.

If you see growing yourself as an unnecessary diversion from whatever you want to waste your life doing, then you're not going to get far.

Sorry but this 'fake it till you make it' stuff is crap. A loser that's pretending to be a winner is just an even bigger loser than he was before. The 'slick act' might fool some pussy into spreading for you but in end the only one you end up fooling is yourself.

If your goals and passions are easy and don't demand sacrifice and hard work then they clearly aren't worth chasing in the first fucking place. Nothing worth doing is easy.

Unnecessary diversion? Who said that?

Joker, it's not my discussion to weigh in on however your argument is becoming embarrassing.Hammertime pulled you up on your cynical view:
And to be honest I agree with him, it's essentially the reason why we all started PU - to find the girl who will support us.

Take a look around, yes there're some girls who won't sacrifice, however just at the uni I work at alone I know of 4 wives to hand who have given up everything to support their husbands in their career!

No - you shouldn't depend on somebody else to make your dream happen
But neither should you tarnish all girls with the same brush.

Personally I'm out there to find a partner who'll share my goals and I hers, it's just a matter of me discovering my own goals and finding somebody who's goals I can share too!

Stop being a kid, not everyone is out to get you...

Stop being a kid, not everyone is out to get you...Or ARE They?

Be a child but don't be childish.

what do I mean by that? Well.. oh fuckit, sure you can work it out

Drinking water? Really? Wow. Well done princess! Would you like a medal?

Do you also light a candle and sing yourself a song every time you manage to curl one out all on your own as well??

Basic biological functions are one thing, taking risks and making big sacrifices in order to reap those bigger rewards is quite another. Apparently you can’t tell that there’s even a difference.

Also in other news…What’s always transparent (to me anyway) is that you are a very little man who thinks that standing on other people in an internet ‘pua forum’ makes him look tall. It doesn’t. Not from where I’m standing.

i dont think anyone on here steps on people to look big, i think sometimes a pattern evolves of people saying stuff for effect whether it to make them look good, or even people talking like they get girls, when they clearly dont... not somethin ive noticed with u, but then im ignorant.

this forum is built on calling people out on their shit, K is simply a black and white image of what the site stands for...

even if he is a prick