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Default The difference between PUA and normal men - 23-11-2022, 07:02 PM

I've studied the behavior of PUA, and here's what I found. No PUA look for eye contact, or body language. All the ones I've seen will spot an attractive woman, and walk over to her and try to talk to her. Most of the time, the female will not acknowledge the PUA's existance. PUA approaches from behind, and the side. The majority of the time they will startle the female. Normal men will wait for some kind of acknowledgement before approaching.

Secondly, PUA's are rigid in their methods. PUA set specific times to do approaches. For example, Thursdays from 1-3. If PUA see a female who might be interested on Friday, PUA just ignores the female because it's outside his "business hours".

Those are the two main differences I've noticed
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Default 17-01-2024, 02:36 AM

Let me also add this. The majority of normal men will ask out females who has shown some signs of interest. A PUA will ask out females who have shown no signs of interest. That's the main difference to me. PUA got no dignity
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In the PUA scene, there's a tendency to approach without waiting for clear signals or using rigid methods within specific time frames, which can create uncomfortable situations. On the flip side, "normal men" typically wait for signs of interest before making a move, aligning with more conventional dating norms that prioritize mutual comfort. Your emphasis on dignity underscores the importance of respect and genuine connection in dating, as pursuing someone without prior signs of interest can be intrusive and may not lead to healthy connections. In essence, it's crucial to approach dating with sincerity, respect, and an understanding of mutual boundaries for positive and consensual interactions.
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Default 04-02-2024, 01:51 PM

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In the PUA scene, there's a tendency to approach without waiting for clear signals or using rigid methods within specific time frames, which can create uncomfortable situations. On the flip side, "normal men" typically wait for signs of interest before making a move, aligning with more conventional dating norms that prioritize mutual comfort. Your emphasis on dignity underscores the importance of respect and genuine connection in dating, as pursuing someone without prior signs of interest can be intrusive and may not lead to healthy connections. In essence, it's crucial to approach dating with sincerity, respect, and an understanding of mutual boundaries for positive and consensual interactions.
most pua dont respect boundaries. in fact, they probably didnt respect boundaries even before they became pua thats why they got no action, and became pua in the first place. they thought that throwing in some pick up lines will be a short cut but it isnt. their underlying flaws are still there right out in the open, and thats why pua never really get anywhere. and really on top of the lack of respect for boundaries is also their mental illness which is a huge problem in it of itself which will most certainly scare most females away. alot of people say, well, alot of women date mentally ill guys, but you dont know how they met. women are alot more willing to give a chance to guys they see regularly, and this can be like a mailman even. but if you a random mentally ill guy in a park that theyve never seen, why should they give you a chance? people tend to respond very difrently to those who they know, and those who they dont. even your position matters. as i said, if you are a mailman. people know who you are. they know what you do. when youre a pua in a park running after females. no one knows who you are or what you do. and it makes alot of sense for people to put these defense mechanisms in place, otherwise, women will just be running off with the randomest mentally ill guys
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