The difference between PUA and normal men
I've studied the behavior of PUA, and here's what I found. No PUA look for eye contact, or body language. All the ones I've seen will spot an attractive woman, and walk over to her and try to talk to her. Most of the time, the female will not acknowledge the PUA's existance. PUA approaches from behind, and the side. The majority of the time they will startle the female. Normal men will wait for some kind of acknowledgement before approaching.
Secondly, PUA's are rigid in their methods. PUA set specific times to do approaches. For example, Thursdays from 1-3. If PUA see a female who might be interested on Friday, PUA just ignores the female because it's outside his "business hours". Those are the two main differences I've noticed |
Let me also add this. The majority of normal men will ask out females who has shown some signs of interest. A PUA will ask out females who have shown no signs of interest. That's the main difference to me. PUA got no dignity
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In the PUA scene, there's a tendency to approach without waiting for clear signals or using rigid methods within specific time frames, which can create uncomfortable situations. On the flip side, "normal men" typically wait for signs of interest before making a move, aligning with more conventional dating norms that prioritize mutual comfort. Your emphasis on dignity underscores the importance of respect and genuine connection in dating, as pursuing someone without prior signs of interest can be intrusive and may not lead to healthy connections. In essence, it's crucial to approach dating with sincerity, respect, and an understanding of mutual boundaries for positive and consensual interactions.
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