Same could be said about most men :P

i dont think it could, ur on a forum where most guys dont know their own value.

a whole circle dedicated to making yourself more desirable to women

infact most men fuck anythin that moves.


most men dont wanna get involved in womens activities

they certainly dont expect womens social circles to bend the rules to suit them.

so no, the same couldnt be said for most men.

within the masses, women are idiots

yes, this is in fact true. Its not all men, it is only within that site and most men on there will we less than average

however,

you need to take into account that the type of women using a site like this will also be of low value or struggling to find a man without it i.e. single mums etc,

so being that the same "League" classification would essentially be using this site,

then the averages should be met

interesting points,

but shes soo up her own arse.

fuck u, u desperate bitch!

Is it men? Is it women? Probably both!

What about society? Society is incredibly fast-paced and temporary so why wouldnt relationships folow suit...

Oh for fuck's sake. Who gives a pig's arse about whether her statistics are right or whether she's up her own arse or not. She makes some incredibly pertinent points about the marginalisation of the assertion of masculinity in the modern world, and I for one think she's on the money. I saw it just through living with girls for 2 years. They'd try and impose female values on what I might call "stricly male arenas" (like the businesses of wanking, farting and watching an inordinate amount of Formula 1) on me and my friends and when we told them to sod off (in a friendly, jokey way of course), it drove them mad. Had we given in to them and watched Loose Women instead, and spent every free minute weaving baskets rather than having a wafty crank, we'd have been utter suckers, less manly and less attractive; but most importantly, we'd have been less confident in our own values and masculinity. One of these girls, single as of about 4 months ago, is currently messaging me at every available opportunity and is arranging to come visit me in South Korea. Coincidence? Maybe, but I think it's got more to do with the fact that I was the man of the house for 2 years and didn't take any female bullshit.

Anyway, marriage is just an exaggerated extension of this. Men getting married to a woman because they feel, due to female intervention, that it's the "right" or "manly" thing to do when in fact it isn't. The only way it's either of those things is if a man decides it's what he wants to do in order to define his values and define himself as a man. In other words, if he does it for his own reasons. Doing it for someone else's reasons (unless the act of doing this is how he wants to define himself as a man) is weak and coming from a point of supplication; wanting to please others and willing to sacrifice one's masculinity to do it.

It all boils down to the same thing really. Having the balls to do what you want for your own reasons. Trusting in your own assertions that you're doing the right thing, and people will benefit from it and you will be king of the hill because of it. If it all goes tits up, at least you had a go, put your balls on the line and did something for the right reasons other than because you wanted to appease somebody else.

It's also worth mentioning I'd smash her back doors in, even though she's not particularly attractive. Something a lot of average women who "struggle to attract men" would do well to learn from.

Blanca, I agree with what you say and it isn't a dig but more of a question. When you're just messing around having a bit of fun being masculine and assertive works, however in a relationship you can't just walk around having everything your own way, how do you compromise without losing that masculinity?