Me and my guy friends were talking and i was just replying to a female friend's text message, i was told my reply was very dominant, all i'd like to know is, should i always be dominant or is there situations where i shouldnt.

if she wants to lead in bed... let her every once in a while :P

or steak & BJ day.

otherwise, I honestly can't think of much else.


Usually the most I'd consider is split decision making between both of you, but the final decision should be yours.

yes, wen women tell u they dont want u to be dominant, but hey are still fucking you

they basically wanna turn u into putty, then move on.

DONT GIVE UP UR MAN!!

maybe just small tastes of it

but stay true to who u are mate

this is true, if you are thinkin, i dont wanna be dominant here but i need to be because of XYZ

then ur not being dominant ur acting so. which means u need to eject from the situation because emotionally u feel the need to be pushed into acting a certain way.

Its like having oneitis, and acting dominant even tho u wanna be a whipped bitch.

the dominance becomes anger, which leads to hate... which leads to the dark side

rather than acting dominant in these situations, just eject... and avoid the person untill ur onitis is gone, thn u can be dominant self again!

ok well my friends tell me i usually like to dominate and lead most situations and i'm supposedly a "protector"

How to Become an Alpha Male - John Alexander

Dominant or Controlling? I think its a good thing to keep in mind that if you don't need to do anything right now you don't have to impose more dominance just make sure you're stepping up when the time is right and it is needed.

It's def a balance, like others have said its knowing when to and when not to.

This only comes through practice.

Being dominant is a good thing and you can push this more than you have done in some circumstances I suspect but in others you have to take a step back and be chilled