this is true, if you are thinkin, i dont wanna be dominant here but i need to be because of XYZ

then ur not being dominant ur acting so. which means u need to eject from the situation because emotionally u feel the need to be pushed into acting a certain way.

Its like having oneitis, and acting dominant even tho u wanna be a whipped bitch.

the dominance becomes anger, which leads to hate... which leads to the dark side

rather than acting dominant in these situations, just eject... and avoid the person untill ur onitis is gone, thn u can be dominant self again!