I've read through the game and have been looking at a lot of material online and on forums like this, however without shedding out loads of cash on a boot camp, I'm a bit lost where to start, should I be getting rid of my AA or memorizing some patterns or working on some kind of gimmick like ESP??!

I think I just need to get the ball rolling to sort my inner game and don't really know where to begin. Any examples of how some of you started out would be appreciated.

What exactly do you set out to achieve?

I'd start with David De angelos double your dating to start to open your mind to some of the deeper stuff to follow, then the flawless natural by RSD's Tim to get a good idea of the possibilities, then break with pick entirely and look at some of Anthony Robbins stuff this will give you the encouragement to keep going. Then 77 laws of dating with David De Angelo to get the inner game stuff nailed in. Then go balls out with the blue print from RSD for a look at the wider picture.

This thread has been organised by Kowalski including some of the better posts for newbie's.

http://www.puaforum.co.uk/seduction-...over-line.html

PS

Excellent thread, a lot of good information I'm going to keep rereading to force it in.

I will start taking a look into DYD now, and work on the rest after, thanks for your suggestions.

And Alpha D, after having an LTR with someone throughout most of my teenage years, we separated to become single and have no idea how to meet new women. Eventually I want to find a woman who's perfect for me and do the whole LTR thing with, but I want to enjoy the journey of getting there, meeting lots of new women, having sex with them, and also improving myself. As from what I have read about Inner Game, it seems as though it affects more than just how you do with women, but who you are and what you can accomplish.

EDIT: Although I do want to get into an LTR eventually, after getting into a few short lived relationships over the past couple years, I'm not just going to dive into one with the first hot girl I can PU. I'm only going to start something with a woman who literally blows my mind, physically, and mentally.

OP: "Where to start?"

Start with: a woman who blows your cock!

Where to start is simple:

Get out and approach. If you have AA like me, then just have a couple drinks before hand. Then force yourself to act. Fuck reading and watching all this how-to bollocks, you have just got go out and through trial and error, you will learn.

You may have to make changes to your lifestyle, or to your look, but in the end, it simply comes down to the fact that the only way to get succesfull at this is to act. Don't bury your head in books before you have acted, it will just confuse you.

If you wanted to learn how to fix a car, what would be better? To read a haynes manual? Or to get your fingers dirty, pull the engine apart, and put it back together again?

Best of luck buddy.

Much love,

Craigus

Craigus, I have begun to do this, I posted my first field report, be it unimpressive, it's the first step in a long road. Instead of reading about what to say, how to act and canned shit mystery style.. I'm going to improve myself; do something different with my hair, get some new threads and read up on some inner game as already suggested. I'm hoping that coupled with getting out there should start making dramatic differences.

Thanks!

EDIT: Rebus. You don't have to worry, that was near-instantly taken onboard.