I'd start with David De angelos double your dating to start to open your mind to some of the deeper stuff to follow, then the flawless natural by RSD's Tim to get a good idea of the possibilities, then break with pick entirely and look at some of Anthony Robbins stuff this will give you the encouragement to keep going. Then 77 laws of dating with David De Angelo to get the inner game stuff nailed in. Then go balls out with the blue print from RSD for a look at the wider picture.