yes, but what i mean is, the first time you tried the routine... how did you know it would work?

just to clarify.

you say confidence and game are diff.

so one day u decided to use this special routine that u knew would work coz it was in the book THE GAME

and went out and it worked. YAY.... so basically you did no work here, style basically did all the work. i mean, all u did was approach and talk to the girl.

so then you have routines you came up with that u are not as confident in just yet, but you hope one day they are as good as the routines in THE GAME

there is a pattern there if you see it.

IT ISNT THE ROUTINE ITS THE CONFIDENCE.

I knew it would work because style had tried it and tested it so I had confidence in using it

So are you saying I shouldn't use routines and that I should use my confidence instead? The only flaw with that is I have no confidence, like I said I'm an awkward kind of guy, 8/10 girls feel that, masking it with a routine works wonders for me....

What Phil is saying is don't rely on routines.

If you build confidence in situations in which you are socially uncomfortable so that you do not have to use routines then you will grow as a person, not just a PUA. Routines are just a mask that makes you look confident and only work on weak minded girls where you will never grow as a person but always be a shallow man chasing a shag...

Watch a seminar called "blueprint decoded" by RSD or real social dynamics. It's notthe be all and end all of pickup and pop psychology but if you go out, enjoy yourself, try things and make mistakes you become a confident powerful person because you overcome that fear and realised some of your potential

People who stick to routines do so because they feel they have nothing to offer girls (or other people), an self depricating DLV of sorts...

no, you read that he had tried it. You don't know.

he could be lying about 80% of the book. you just wouldnt know.

the routine gave u confidence to approach, u pulled the girl its that simple.

Do what this fella said. You can also listen to it in mp3 format whilst you're on the move!

What The Actual Fuck

Option 1 - Talk to her about it like an adult..discuss how you feel

Option 2 - When she is giving you a blowjob..get your phone out and play Fruit Mania

Option 3 - Grab her phone throw it away and fuck her

Honestly tho...that is terrible..plus your in a relationship..bareback should be a option here......


some Girls....are way too addicted to their phone..ive encountered this. they have such double standards its hilarious..they use their phone all the time ..when with you..HOWEVER when I use my phone and start phone bashing they get all funny
" your always on your phone bla bla bla bla bla bla bla "

I just set the record straight ..tell them to stop moaning in the nicest way possible

Im still in shock your GF uses her phone while your putting a condom on...

Please use option 2 for the lolz.