Ok I better choice of words, I wanted to ask her and I knew she wanted me to ask her

If I'm honest I don't go a lot on the cliche bullshit but its completely different to choding around with one-itis or whatever the kids are calling it nowadays (and I've had that in the past) and I actually have no doubts.

To both of us marriage is important, she's Christian (but not too strict) so it seems like a natural thing to do

She also lives in Montreal so it's interesting and K's advice for learning another language is proving invaluable!!