right guys im 19 from n.ireland, been reading and learning pu for probably 1yr and a half right now. my problems are being too picky, and well too lazy with girls. according to my girl m8s i am very good looking and i am in amazing shape, girls are always looking me up and down, thought this has prob really only started hapenin since last summer when my image changed a bit, i.e highlighted my hair was trainig for a cage fight etc so was in great shape. the fact that my ego now believes that i am of such high value i need to be super selective which hasnt gone well because i lack the experience and aa is high wen talkin to girls i do fancy. basically im great till i open my mouth.

more recently i have actually started implementing my pu knowledge by doin approaches and im gettin more success, one of the problems was that i was takin information that was for guys who werent very good looking, and using it i.e. negs and they dont work as well wen u acutaly are good lookin urself.
so i realised that pu vary in each individual and i had to take everthin with a pinch of salt so now i believe i will truly start improving drastically and getttin all the no. i want.

Hey welcome!

I feel like a broken record but have a look at natural Tim's RSD flawless natural it's more of a natural approach (natch!) not about negging more about assuming you are on the same level as her so you don't need to neg.
Saying that i'm pretty new to this it's just the whole canned openers seems a bit weird to me

cheers kowalski ur an invaluable resource thanks for the link

If you already have attraction with girls, then you do not need to neg. Move straight onto comfort and escalate kino.

It seems you are trying to neg girls when they don't need to be negged!

Welcome!