Hey to you all here are my particulars:

Name: Olly
Age: 30
Location: London
Occupation: Teacher

Right then here is how its gone so far, I would say I have been average to poor on the women front my entire life. I had a few GF's that tied me right down when I was younger and then at about 23 I said right fuck this and decided the last thing I wanted was a GF and started to play the field. I watched a mate of mine who was good with the ladies for a while and he used to act like this out of control maniac when he was out not giving a shit about anything, fairly easy for him as he had nothing to lose anyway. But he would pick up so many birds.

So anyway I started to copy him and got almost instant results, once I finally got over my initial fear of approaching. For a 6 month period I would get at least 3/4 numbers a night and 50% of the time ended up going home with girls that night. My friends at the time thought I was great with birds but would get pissed off because whenever we hit a club I was off chatting to the birds and never having a chat with them at the bar and talking about whatever. Anyway eventually after doing all this and then dating these birds during the week and it costing me a fortune (I have always been one to offer to pay) I decide to take my friends advice, chill out and have a beer with the lads when I was out. So I did this always feeling that I could turn it back on whenever I wanted.

Guess what, I couldn't and for the last 5 or 6 years I have been one of those guys going out, not chatting up girls and just getting pissed at the bar! And all that approach anxiety has come flooding back. I have still had dates and stuff during this time but my confidence has been shot and I am nowhere near the game I had during that 6 month period.

since then I have moved to London, Settled in my Job and decided that I want to really transform myself. Not just to pick up hot girls but to self Evolve as a man. And being good with women is one aspect of my life I want to improve.

The first thing is to get back over my fear of approaching and confident of some plot lines (RSD Tim, transformations) I am going to ask for some advice on this in the appropriate area of the forum. then once I have got that right I'll move on. I am really looking forward to sharing ideas with you guys and going through the whole process of evolving this area of my life"



"Peter Hill...never fucking heard of him!"

Hey man, welcome aboard the good ship progress!

Welcome mate, I'm sure in a few weeks when your approach anxiety begins to subside that success you previously had will start to come flooding back.

Welcome to the forum

Welcome to the forum mate hope we can all help to the best of us all !!!

Were in london u based!!!