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Hey to you all here are my particulars:

Name: Olly
Age: 30
Location: London
Occupation: Teacher

Right then here is how its gone so far, I would say I have been average to poor on the women front my entire life. I had a few GF's that tied me right down when I was younger and then at about 23 I said right fuck this and decided the last thing I wanted was a GF and started to play the field. I watched a mate of mine who was good with the ladies for a while and he used to act like this out of control maniac when he was out not giving a shit about anything, fairly easy for him as he had nothing to lose anyway. But he would pick up so many birds.

So anyway I started to copy him and got almost instant results, once I finally got over my initial fear of approaching. For a 6 month period I would get at least 3/4 numbers a night and 50% of the time ended up going home with girls that night. My friends at the time thought I was great with birds but would get pissed off because whenever we hit a club I was off chatting to the birds and never having a chat with them at the bar and talking about whatever. Anyway eventually after doing all this and then dating these birds during the week and it costing me a fortune (I have always been one to offer to pay) I decide to take my friends advice, chill out and have a beer with the lads when I was out. So I did this always feeling that I could turn it back on whenever I wanted.

Guess what, I couldn't and for the last 5 or 6 years I have been one of those guys going out, not chatting up girls and just getting pissed at the bar! And all that approach anxiety has come flooding back. I have still had dates and stuff during this time but my confidence has been shot and I am nowhere near the game I had during that 6 month period.

since then I have moved to London, Settled in my Job and decided that I want to really transform myself. Not just to pick up hot girls but to self Evolve as a man. And being good with women is one aspect of my life I want to improve.

The first thing is to get back over my fear of approaching and confident of some plot lines (RSD Tim, transformations) I am going to ask for some advice on this in the appropriate area of the forum. then once I have got that right I'll move on. I am really looking forward to sharing ideas with you guys and going through the whole process of evolving this area of my life"

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