Ok guys,

I have a real sticking point here. While I get AA like anyone else that comes and goes. Once I get chatting to girls I don't find conversation difficult unless she is being unresponsive. The problem is I have no idea how to turn that first bit of it into romantic intent! I think the theory is called escalating? I have no I dea what to do or when to do it! Does anyone have any advice for me? As you can imagine I keep hitting the friends zone where I'm the really nice guy that girls love to talk to but I never get to the bit where I'm the guy girls want to sleep with.

Google Kino!

Also google Open Ended Questions

Googling kino!

What phil said...

but...

can we all agree no more PUA words? They just bring back bad memories of me endlessly reading books searching for code words and secret tips when I was new to this all...

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Break the touch barrier! Nothing makes you feel more human than making contact with someone else in a friendly way! Almost every animal specie out there relies on physical contact for some form of communication. Outside of handshakes, touching another person in our current society is pretty much non-existent or reserved only for friends, relatives and lovers.

So, what's the fastest way to shortcut that awkward phase with someone, or go from being a nobody to a somebody? Make contact with them! (in a non-creepy way). Touching someone will automatically make you seem like less of a stranger, and will make you more warm and inviting than 90% of people out there.

Ever been at school / work, and there's the douche bag that you love to hate, but sometimes he'll give you a friendly smack on the shoulder, and you can't help but enjoy his company, even for a microsecond? Same thing. But mix that same emotion in with being confident, well groomed, inviting & interesting around the ladies and you're a sure hit.

kino isnt a PUA word.

i know that its 'not', but around here it has a distinctive meaning, similar to how 'game' has an annotation in this sort of setting vs. rest of reality.

Break the touch barrier early and often. But don't be him...





Be him...

Ok guys, thanks for the points, I have decided to do a bit of googling and put some things down on paper. I am going to attempt the following over the next few weeks and see how they work.

During interaction I need to get some kind of touch in early. Something simple and playful. As interaction moves on a need to do something that's somewhat obvious and totally directed by me.

My aim is to make a point of doing this in all my interactions and then analysing the results.

Touching a girl early on the arm, back and waist is a great way of turning up the heat. I also find if I don't do this, then I will feel stifled (it is after all what I want to do). I also like to use eye contact to create sexual tension. Look at their lips, check out their tits and their body, and general prolonged eye contact that makes them blush.