Thanks guys, yes I think my start is to not
change my hobby time for her, stick to it, and be busy

Just realised- shed often say 'I won't be able to see you much next weekend as working late, stables etc'

Should be me saying that lol

why should it? do u think she gets busy just so she doesnt have to see u??

how self absorbed.

is someone is doing somethin, its always for their own self & not in spite of u,

ya need to stop thinkin everythin people do is about u. BEEN THERE!!! isnt healthy

Nothing people do is about u

Lol chill out, I didn't mean it like
that at all

I meant I should be busy when I am busy, not keep ending things early or working around her...as she doesn't, and nor should anyone

I don't know why you felt the need for the insults, I'm probably the opposite of
self absorbed, will always help people out and probably
don't put myself first enough of the time

insult? not any part of that was an insult...

u have however just shown me ur problem,

u take negatives from things that are not there

I think cha gets the point.

Taking everyones points, I think I just need to get back to how I was when we met, shouldn't be so hard, just putting much of my things back in a sensible place on the priority list, which I have started doing anyway.
I guess we can get weakened by the HB10 lol